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November 2nd, 2012, 07:20 AM
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I know it's not a big deal to complain about but it's been a little tough for me. I do not have any kids and my SO works opposite as me. Also it's hunting season...lol . Needless to say I am home alone a lot. I haven't told friends I am pregnant yet. I just feel like I am alone hiding this secret. Feeling kind of secluded from everyone, quite lost and alone. I use to always be busy doing something.
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November 2nd, 2012, 07:24 AM
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I've been purposely secluding myself! I feel so guilty when I'm around other people for keeping baby a secret. Haha. I feel like if I just stay home, no one will know!
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November 2nd, 2012, 07:33 AM
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I have ds but i feel alone alot too. Dh works from 8 am to 9 pm every weekday. I moved away from friends and family when we got engaged and havent made many new ones....so i feel secluded all the time. Somedays i want to go crazy. Im hoping it improves....i want to move back near my family after baby is born but we will need serious finacial miracles to make it happen.
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November 2nd, 2012, 07:49 AM
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Sorry You feel that why too Becca. I hear ya. i wish there was a good answer.

Me too Hopeful but It's just been difficult for me.
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November 2nd, 2012, 09:22 AM
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I felt like this with my first pregnancy and everyone knew. It does get better hang in there hun! You have us to talk too!
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November 2nd, 2012, 10:03 AM
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I felt like this with my first pregnancy and everyone knew. It does get better hang in there hun! You have us to talk too!

Thanks :0 it is really nice having this place to come talk and listen to others.
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November 2nd, 2012, 06:53 PM
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Oh I know that feeling well. I felt the same way with my last pregnancy. No friends, nobody to talk to... it was very hard. That's one of the main reasons I joined this group.... to have some girls to talk to. Thinking of you hun.
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November 2nd, 2012, 08:32 PM
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It's perfectly normal to feel that way! My SO works 2 jobs 7am-10pm. I work 6:30am-3pm and barely see him at times. I know he's working hard for our growing family but it's still tough sometimes. Everyone knows I am pregnant and I have two other children but I still feel alone at times.
I have to do things to keep busy and make myself happy. Although, I still have those days.. lately, I've been on an emotional roller coaster. So, you are definitely not alone. That's why I love this site! we can all Just support one another! There always seems to be someone that is going through something similar.
I am thinking of picking up a new hobby! I will let you know how it goes.

please feel free to reach out anytime because you are not alone.
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November 3rd, 2012, 09:38 AM
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Thanks evryone I really appreciate it. I am having a bad bad and feeling badly this morning. i hope it turns around.
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November 3rd, 2012, 09:36 PM
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I hope you're starting to feel a little better.

You wouldn't believe some of the things crossing my mind today.

I guess it's just the hormones.

Do something to make yourself happy

Cheri
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November 3rd, 2012, 11:38 PM
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I feel that way sometimes too. I have DD but DH is a truckdriver so hes gone alot. But im lame...when im feeling really lonely i call my mom and BS with her. She is great to vent too about DD being a typical (almost) terrible two.
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November 4th, 2012, 02:04 PM
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I hope you're starting to feel a little better.

You wouldn't believe some of the things crossing my mind today.

I guess it's just the hormones.

Do something to make yourself happy

Cheri
Just wanted to say thanks. Today seems like a better day
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