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November 14th, 2012, 12:59 PM
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If you could got back in time for 48 hours and change one
Thing in your life what would it be? Changing this does not have any negative effects on your life now.
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November 14th, 2012, 01:03 PM
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easy; I wouldn't have dropped out of hs my senior year, would have gone to a 4 yr college/univ, and would have stayed far, far away from the abusive loser I was with for 3 years during that time!!
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November 14th, 2012, 04:20 PM
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I would probably tell my younger self to go and do more with my mom and not have an attitude about it. Me and my mom have always been really close and we did a lot together but I have come to realize that she did a lot of what I wanted and I wouldn't really do anything that she wanted. I moved away when I was young and I miss the time we could have spent together. At the same time I would probably warn myself that the boy I waste my time on in high school is no where near worth it.
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November 14th, 2012, 05:09 PM
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I would have told myself not to live with my husband before we were married. It is something that 8 years ago did not matter near as much to me as it does today. Not that it effected me a huge amount but I just wish I would not have done it. It does not line up with my thoughts now!
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November 14th, 2012, 05:37 PM
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I only have one thing I would change...Im kinda a no regrets kinda girl. But i would go back to tell my mom to not start dating the guy she got with after my brothers dad who she stayed with for 16 years. Who abused me and my brothers and then my mom. Its the one thing I would change and its not something i did wrong...just something i was helpless about as a kid
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November 14th, 2012, 06:04 PM
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I only have one thing I would change...Im kinda a no regrets kinda girl. But i would go back to tell my mom to not start dating the guy she got with after my brothers dad who she stayed with for 16 years. Who abused me and my brothers and then my mom. Its the one thing I would change and its not something i did wrong...just something i was helpless about as a kid
I am so very sorry (hugs)
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November 14th, 2012, 08:32 PM
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I wish I would have spent more time with my dad this past year and a half. I did spend a lot with him, but I wish I would have spent more. I wish I would have seen my mom one last time before she died, let her meet her second grandson and get to know both my boys.
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November 14th, 2012, 10:54 PM
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I would go back and spend more time with my grandparents. I feel like I did t give
Them enough of my time. My grandma lived with us before she died and I moved to WA after I got married. I never saw her again . We were really close and shared a navy spouse bond.
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November 15th, 2012, 03:05 AM
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I try not to have any regrets and remind myself that everything that I've gone through in life is a lesson, but I'd go back to when my grandmother died about a year and a half ago. I had seen her on Saturday and came home to Pittsburgh on Monday. Tuesday morning I got a call that she had passed away in the night. Sadly, it wasn't in her sleep. I won't go into the details, but it still kills me that she was alone. I don't want to go back to be able to call 911 and possibly save her, I just want to go back and be there for her like she was there for me my whole life.
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