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Quick update on me and BD. Long story, sorry.


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December 23rd, 2012, 08:47 AM
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I realized that I put in a few posts that the baby's dad and I are back together and had completely failed to update anyone. I guess I was surprised that anyone noticed, haha. But that's why I love you ladies.

The baby's dad (Anthony) and I were doing really well as friends, being completely civil, hanging out together, etc. There was some tension (the good kind), so being in a relationship came up and we talked about it. We both still really care for each other, so I told him if he wanted to try a relationship again that we had to be committed to making it work, that we couldn't break up every time he had a bad day. He thought about it for a minute and responded with "Okay, lets do it." So we slowly started acting like a couple again and things are great at this point. We're happy together and feel very strongly about each other. He's very interested in the pregnancy and even keeps up with what week we're in and what should be going on. I know we never stopped loving each other, but the break gave us a chance to step back and really find out that we want to be together. So, for now, we're committed and are doing our best to make things work. Still taking things one day at a time. Looks like I'll start referring to him as "SO" now.
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December 23rd, 2012, 08:55 AM
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Nice! That's great news!
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December 23rd, 2012, 09:16 AM
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That's awesome! Sometimes stepping back and realizing what you are missing is all it takes. Hope things keep looking up for you guys!
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December 23rd, 2012, 09:26 AM
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I'm happy for you guys!!
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December 23rd, 2012, 10:50 AM
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Yayyy!!! I agree with everyone else, sometimes you just need to take a minute (or month) to reflect on what it is you really want.
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December 23rd, 2012, 11:03 AM
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I am vey happy for you! I hope things continue to go well!
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December 23rd, 2012, 12:13 PM
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I am happy for you and glad to hear that things are going well!
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December 23rd, 2012, 12:32 PM
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Best wishes.
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December 23rd, 2012, 12:35 PM
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Im happy for you
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December 23rd, 2012, 01:08 PM
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Very happy to hear this! Sometimes families start in strange situations but you have to make the best of it and I am really glad he is stepping up and giving it a shot! I am hoping things continue to go well!
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December 23rd, 2012, 05:13 PM
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December 23rd, 2012, 06:35 PM
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That sounds great! I'm very happy for you!
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December 23rd, 2012, 07:58 PM
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Thanks everyone!! It means a lot to me that you ladies are always supportive and never judge. I feel very lucky to be a part of this DDC!!
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December 24th, 2012, 09:27 PM
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What a fantastic update!
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December 25th, 2012, 08:57 PM
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Great! I hope you continue to find success in your relationship.
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