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My poor husband BEGS for it constantly but I am NEVER in the mood! LOL The last time we DTD was I think last Thursday..We try to keep it to once a week because I am SOOOO not in the mood and I find it super uncomphy LOL
I gave in yesterday afternoon. We had taken a nap and I had a little bit of a dirty dream, so when I woke up I thought I would be into it. (He's been begging, I give in occasionally, but it hurts me, so it's hard for me to want to do it.) Sadly, it still hurt. So, it probably won't happen again for a week or two, maybe longer.
On Saturday and it was great!! I have only DTD a few times since finding out. My So wasn't into it, it just freaked him out, afraid about baby etc. He finally seemed into it this last time. It doesn't seem to hurt me yet and I can't get enough. I try way more than we actually DTD. I am hoping we can at least once a week.
in the middle of the night last night.. bf loves to get it in unspeakable hours like 3 a.m. and such. Honestly I am pretty pissed because well I wanna sleep.. pregnant woman here.. and when I am not pregnant I am used to him jumping me for sex several times per day.. and since being pregnant man it's like once a day or sometimes once every couple days and I feel so blah because of it.. like even if I don't want it I need him to still want me ya know? He says it's because I always complain he is hurting me when he's on top well because of my stomach and he is afraid and feels bad.. but personally I think it's because I gained 33 pounds ahhhhhhh
last Saturday morning...I've slowed us down considerably because of some super serious bleeding that happened we dtd when I was 8 weeks. I thought I miscarrying...I had AF like light flow, quarter sized clots, major cramping and all...suffice it to say, I was FREAKED out! So we've done it one other time before last Saturday and both times have had no bleeding or cramping. DH doesn't know it yet, but he's unleashed the beast again! LOL ;-) It's on now!
Last night I wasn't really in the mood, but it's been over a week and I figured since I wasn't feeling sick or anything, I might as well make the effort. Plus I had just shaved my legs for the first time in like a week, lol. And I was wearing a sexy nighty...rawr.
So, I suggestively snuggled over to my husband's side of the bed where he was sitting up using his laptop, and I tried to be all sexy and ask him if he wanted to dtd.
"Sure honey, as soon as I finish this game."
Mood RUINED. I rolled over and turned off my light and pretended to go to sleep. 45 minutes later (just as I actually was falling asleep) he turned off his computer and snuggled up to me. So I just continued to pretend to be asleep.
Last was sunday afternoon - I am making sure it is at least once a wekks but usually it is probably 2 times per week. sometimes it goes well, but it isn't something that I necessary think about wanting.
DH left town last night for work and won't be home until Friday. Got it in for his bday on Monday, but mama needs more than this. It's on this weekend! My goal is 4x. He will probably be at least a little surprised.