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  #21  
February 8th, 2013, 01:18 PM
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Not as much as I would like . Probably once a week but I would do it every day if he was down. Lately, it has been more do to the fact that our son is on a sleeping strike and DF has been working 70 hour weeks so he just doesn't have the energy.

What sucks is it was the opposite last pregnancy...we just can't seem to get our libidos on the same page.
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February 8th, 2013, 01:22 PM
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I dont DTD during my pregnancies or BFing. I lose the desire to when my estrogen changes (same thing happened on BC until I just stopped using it) and I feel bad but I couldnt get the interest in it even if I tried hard.
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February 8th, 2013, 02:17 PM
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I never thought I would wish he had a smaller penis LMAO

all I will say is, I know the feeling....

We've had a lot of things get in the way lately, illnesses etc. It has been awhile. I am feeling hornier though lately so I think we will get back into it soon. With my last pregnancy we barely had any sex until the third tri and then we had quite a bit hoping to get back into that sooner this time. DD has been needy at night so we haven't had much opportunity lately. We'll make something happen this weekend for sure anyway.
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February 8th, 2013, 03:54 PM
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Boo, DH has been out of town for two weeks and still not sure when he'll be home. We've already discussed some plans for making up for lost time when he gets home!!!

I don't remember sex ever being too uncomfortable for us to manage during previous pregnancies. I enjoy it more than ever when I'm pregnant, and the closer I get to the end, the better it gets.
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February 8th, 2013, 05:37 PM
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Not very much... He's lucky if it happens once every couple of weeks. It just hurts me, so that makes me not very into doing it. He doesn't seem to understand how bad it hurts me, because he just keeps trying! Lol.
Ditto!

Its weird bc last pregnancy we dtd all the time bc I wanted to but this time I have no interest!
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February 8th, 2013, 05:54 PM
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once every couple of weeks, mostly because of scheduling. I rarely see him during my work rotation. But now that I am off of third shift as of yesterday, it might change. It isn't uncomfortable for me at all.
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February 8th, 2013, 06:44 PM
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Not very much... He's lucky if it happens once every couple of weeks. It just hurts me, so that makes me not very into doing it. He doesn't seem to understand how bad it hurts me, because he just keeps trying! Lol.
Me too! He is clueless as to how bad it actually hurts... and that when it hurts it instantly kills the mood for me. I have been sucking it up but there have been a couple times that we have started and I have to stop and refuse.
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February 8th, 2013, 06:52 PM
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I'm with Jasmine. My libido just dies with the slightest change of estrogen. And I'm not really feeling connected to DH right now because the only time we see each other is in the middle of the day, when I desperately want alone time. All he does is watch stupid YouTube videos and it's such a turn-off. Not to mention I'm depressed in this filthy neighborhood and it gets a lot worse when I'm pregnant. We haven't DTD since Christmas and it was awful.
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February 8th, 2013, 07:02 PM
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Me too! He is clueless as to how bad it actually hurts... and that when it hurts it instantly kills the mood for me. I have been sucking it up but there have been a couple times that we have started and I have to stop and refuse.
Exactly! Even if I am in the mood, as soon as it starts to hurt, I'm done with it. And suffering through it is no fun. I try to give in every now and then, just because I love him. But ughhh, I just would rather not!
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February 8th, 2013, 07:09 PM
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Tonight, I can officially say that I have dtd once since conceiving!! Go us!
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February 9th, 2013, 08:41 AM
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We do it anywhere from 4-6 times a week. We both LOVE pregnancy sex because of the increased blood flow down there. There are lots of times when we're both too tired, but then DH usually makes up for it by coming home when the kids are napping and we'll do it then. Or right when he gets home, we'll let the kids watch a show and head off to the bedroom. If we wait until after he's worked out and the kids are in bed, it usually doesn't happen.
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February 9th, 2013, 12:20 PM
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In the first trimester it was a NO DTD ZONE - I had spotting off & on and a really bad bleed after sex once and it freaked the F out of me...move into 2nd trimester and I totally had grumblings and desire come raging back...so we gave it a go, all was well and it was like "RELEASE THE CRAKKEN"...of sex!! LOL...DH is even getting creative on me, haha =) I think prego sex is feeling extra good for him...and me, holy shiz! Def different then non-prego. So we get it in about x1-2 per week, wish it was more but our schedules being what they are gets in the way =P
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February 9th, 2013, 08:33 PM
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It's been awhile for us only because dh is on a work trip.
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