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I have been wanting it all. the. time... Except when he stuff going on with my family has had me an emotional basket case. When things have been good, it's been 3-5 times per week. The last two weeks, it's only been once, last weekend. We'll be getting back into the swing of things tonight. Can't wait! So deprived! If it were up to me and the crazy family stuff weren't going on, it would be every day. Hoping we can up the frequent until the baby a born and we're stuck with the mandatory break. Boo.
It's probably been 2-3 weeks for us. I try to give in about every 2-3 weeks. I finally had gotten to where I wanted to, but it just hurts so bad that I don't enjoy it at all. Thankfully my husband has stopped asking so much, because that would always make me feel bad for saying no. But now I kind of feel bad that he has quit asking, because he knows there is no chance. Maybe this weekend and then probably not again for a couple of weeks!
It's been a little over 3 weeks for us. I am so thankful he isn't making a big deal out of it like he used to. Most days he'll ask and I tell him I really don't know until I go to bed how I'll feel, and he leaves it at that, which is so unlike him! I feel bad making him go without, but I am just so far from being in the mood it's not even funny. Last time we DTD I flat out told him not to expect me to enjoy it until after the baby was born. It's such a pleasant surprise when I do want to and I take advantage of it every time, which is almost never! It's happened maybe 5 or 6 times since I got pregnant. These hormones just sap all my sexual desire, I hate it.
Mommy to Isaac 8.1.07 Gabriel 7.2.09 and Samuel 6.15.13
Angel Babe 9-16-2012 5wks
Honestly we haven't in months. It seemed as if when we both wanted it and were awake enough it was always while DD was up and crazy. By the end of the night we are both exhausted. And lately even tho I want it at night he is just really not up to it since he lost his job.
I couldn't tell ya how long it's been. It ls just not comfortable at all. And I don't want to be touched. We actually talked about it last night. I told him maybe in a couple of weeks we can DTD to maybe hurry things along. A glimmer of hope lit up in his eyes. But I'm still not sold on it. Haha. He has been a trooper!
It's been about a week and a half for us. The past few times we did it, I had really bad cramping/contractions the rest of the night, so we wanted to wait until I hit 37 weeks to do it again...just to be on the safe side. I've been doing other things for him though, so he's got no complaints.
Lisa, mom to Alie and Christian