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I had an u/s to determine fluid levels & placement of babies that my high risk sat in for then my NST then my apt with my high risk dr. this morning. Fluid levels are sufficient, babies behaved for the NST and looked great and the lady who did it was very competent thank goodness! Also my cervix is softening and not shortening so that is good! But the doctor is concerned with how delivery is going to with the massive fibroid I gave that is located on the fundus of the uterus and if you are looking at my stomach it starts at my belly button and is about 5.5-6 inches wide and tall so it is HUGE!
My dr says I can definitely try to go for a vaginal delivery if B doesn't turn breech(though he didn't sound confident) bc baby A's head is below the fibroid even though the sac is partially behind the fibroid but there are a lot of unknowns in my situation bc 1. after baby A comes out there is no telling if the drs will be able to turn baby B in time to get it in place before my uterus contracts too much & a breech extraction is out of the picture bc the significant size difference(baby A was 5 lbs & baby B 7lbs 2 weeks ago)2. they don't know if the fibroid is going to move & block baby B from getting into place but it is very possible bc of the placement. 3. they are not even sure my uterus is going to dilate properly bc of all the fibroids but mainly the large one acting like a foreign object. The dr explained it to me but it was far to technical for me to try and explain again.
So then it had me thinking well is a c section a better option but when I asked about the c section the dr said there are risks that route as well bc depending on the placement of the fibroids they might have to do the incision vertical on my uterus instead of horizontal which I do not want so I just feel very mixed about everything...it's like cow poop in one hand & pig poop in the other....which one do you want! UGH!
It's not like I really have a choice it will go how it will go and I just need to go along with the ride but I such a control freak that it bugs me...and I know if I jut went with a csection that I would regret not trying for a vaginal delivery.
Please pray that everything goes ok for me and no huge issues arise, I would really appreciate it!
Oh geez that is a tough decision to make :/ I would say you have to go with what your gut tells you and remember that if you do chose to opt for a c section instead then don't beat yourself up Melissa. Its nothing to be ashamed of. Especially if that fibroid puts any risks to you or to either of those precious babes. And I know how you want to have everything in your control but unfortunately sometimes you have to let go of the reins and let God call the shots. I know you want to go vaginal cause that's what you want but you have to remember it'll be OK if it doesn't happen. So stop beating yourself up. Hugs!!!