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Friends of ours (a guy my husband deployed with) just had their baby we were due just days apart and he is not doing well at all. This has made me a very emotional mess and they need as many prayers & positive thoughts as they can get. Here is a link to their caringbridge site for the full scoop.
Sorry I have not been active lately...life is crazy...the day I get a shower & my teeth brushed all in the same day I will post my birth story I promise! Hopefully this week as my mama is coming to help me out
Last edited by crawmommy; July 10th, 2013 at 07:32 PM.
Not sure if anyone has been following my friends story if so they got results back and they were worst case senario. Please pray for ou r friends that they find strength to get by and hopes that a miracle happens and the brain damage isn't as bad the tests are showing. I
I have a huge sense of guilt for just having 2 healthy babies...why cant they just have one?? I cannot imagine being them and I have not stopped thinking about them and I cannot stop crying. I mean ehat do say? What do you do? They live in minnesota so I would like to send them somethimg bit I have no clue as to what?!
I've been checking and it just breaks my heart. =( I am so sorry for them and for you guys. I know exactly what you mean about feeling guilty as well. It gets me everytime something so horrible happens to someone so sweet and innocent and there are thousands of murderers, rapists, etc that live long healthy lives.
Thoughts and prayers for your friends that is so hard.
My personal philosophy is, the world is not designed to be fair or make sense. Bad things happen to good people, good things happen to bad people, and also good things to good people. You should not feel guilty about your healthy babies.
It's hard to imagine what would be the best thing to do for your friends at a time like this. I agree that bringing food is perfect if you are nearby. When you are far away, I think just not being afraid to let them know you are there, is good. Even something like a handmade and handwritten card.
I hope you are doing well apart from this, hopefully when your mom comes you will get a little more of a break