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Sometimes I feel as if I did this situation right but sometimes I have the thought could there have been a better way .
What would you do if you found out a kid 3-5 yrs older than your kid was forcing your kid to do private things with threats of won't be your friend if you don't do this and would say beat you up if you tell.
This kid called these things with nicknames Operation 1,2,and 3.
I didn't want my son around this kid anymore plus so I didn't want to create such a blow up of issues that even tho the kid did bad things with my kids so we tried the ignore and avoidance issue but he kept coming to the door and my boy would want to follow after him.
So after awhile since he wasn't getting the hint I told him he wasn't allowed to play with my son anymore because of the incident.
That kid cried non-stop his Mom showed up I spoke the truth she didn't believe it and said he was too Modest for that stuff.
So, then afterwards the Grandma of the kid kept making comments at my son sayin someone is a liar or look there goes the liar riding his bike.
The cops were called after the other report done by that counselor who was able to share more details because my boy was to scared to do it.
Since my boy when he first told the counselor it sounded like boys play but when he found out about from others he didn't think it was that harmless after all and that some investigation needed to go on.
Its hard to hear people saying bad things when you did nothing wrong
I think you are handling it in the right way... your son should have to play with that other boy espically if hes doing these bad things!