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December 4th, 2012, 06:29 AM
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Who wants it? Who doesn't? Who is still scared?

I don't really have much of a drive with m/s and all, plus honestly I am a little scared after our losses. We have done it twice in the last month (since getting a bfp.)
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December 4th, 2012, 06:31 AM
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I am still a out and out nymph at the moment.

Scared yes but we have banned foreplay until later in the pregnancy and sex has been slow and sensual.
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December 4th, 2012, 06:38 AM
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I have no desire for sex at all... i think we've had sex twice since we got out BFP.
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December 4th, 2012, 06:47 AM
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I was fine with it until the nausea and vomiting got significantly worse. Now I am definitely not into it at all.
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December 4th, 2012, 06:50 AM
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no desire. at all. between nausea and fatigue, i collapse after i get DS to bed. we've DTD once since i got my BFP, and that was 6 weeks ago before m/s started! poor DH ...
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December 4th, 2012, 06:56 AM
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hahaha. We did it once before I started getting sick, and now I'm in bed by 8 each night, then we have a 2 year old crawling into our bed at 6am.
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December 4th, 2012, 07:01 AM
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we are on doctors orders of no sex - but I dont think I would be in the mood anyway. . .
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December 4th, 2012, 07:02 AM
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Doc told me no sex until 12 weeks. Poor DH. I haven't been in the mood anyway. Too stressed and worried.
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December 4th, 2012, 07:09 AM
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I'm not in the mood at all, not even a little bit. When we do DTD, I just want to get it over with, which is not very sexy lol
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December 4th, 2012, 07:11 AM
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Glad that I am not the only one feeling this way! I told DH to enjoy every minute of TTC because I knew it wasn't going to last long!
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December 4th, 2012, 07:23 AM
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havent done it once since our BFP. i miss it, i want it. but, i'm scared, i'm also on progesterone suppositories. its just kind of icky up there right now, i'll get to stop those around 10w so maybe we will resume then. poor DH has been a champ though not bothering me about it.
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December 4th, 2012, 07:35 AM
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I like it.. Nothing has changed for us..
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December 4th, 2012, 07:37 AM
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i've done it like three times in the last 12 hours. even through the morning sickness and fatigue. my hormones are even crazier than usual. but me and my bf have felt this really nice close feeling since we found out we were expecting. and it seems to take my mind off of not feeling good. it's his fault though! i think he likes my new bra size. lol
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December 4th, 2012, 07:38 AM
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I'm not into it but he is & I'm not going to make him wait. So I give in and act like its all good and well, when really I'm like okay now you can get off me :-) hahaha
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December 4th, 2012, 07:52 AM
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No desire, but mostly because I am soo exhausted and our soon to be 2 yr old is not sleeping well at night and ends up in our bed by midnight and then wakes us up every few hours. It has been horrible. When I go to bed I want to go to sleep and that is all.
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December 4th, 2012, 08:39 AM
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No desire really but we are still dtd. But I do not feel sexy at ALL! I feel gross with my bloated gassy stomach. I am hoping I'll feel better about it in the 2nd trimester.
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December 4th, 2012, 08:55 AM
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No real desire, actually I should say I want it but it is never a convenient time. So we have done it maybe 5x since our BFP which is uncharacteristic of us. Even when pregnant with Megan we did it more. At night I just feel super sick and achy and don't want to.
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December 4th, 2012, 09:51 AM
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No real desire. We only DTD once since getting our BFP about 2 weeks ago. DH understands, he's really tired at night too.
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December 4th, 2012, 11:47 AM
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For me it varies by day
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December 4th, 2012, 12:02 PM
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DH can't keep up. I have always had a higher sex drive, but it has gone through the roof.

Thank god for vibrators.
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