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March 11th, 2013, 03:27 PM
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Ok I know im on bedrest so i can see why hubby is some what scared to BD as we will call it but my ob said it ok as long as i dont start dilating .. since i havent dilated at all yet im still good, But hubby is just scared to death to even try ... He was the same the last time i was pg .. As soon as my tummy start getting big, he like im not touchig you ...lol

Is my hubby the only one??? If not at how many weeks did your hubby start to act like that? Does it bother you?
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March 11th, 2013, 04:29 PM
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You ladies really are getting the better of me this week.

BD?

Blue deer?
Big door?
Banana doughnut?
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March 11th, 2013, 04:30 PM
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We definitely have to get a little more creative with positioning now that I have a tummy, but he knows I am always self conscious over my body when I am pregnant so we keep BD a regular thing
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March 11th, 2013, 05:23 PM
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Actually it's the other way around. Because of the length of my cervix, i'm going to make sure it's okay to BD (Baby Dance?) when I have my OB appt in about 1.5 weeks. So DH will have to sit tight till then. He'll survive
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March 11th, 2013, 05:25 PM
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uggggg.... I can't keep DH off of me!
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March 11th, 2013, 05:28 PM
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if it didn't feel like his junk was covered in sand paper we would be doing it often, i think about it often. hes not afraid to touch me... afraid of me though, I've got the pregnancy rage down. LOL
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March 11th, 2013, 05:35 PM
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(Baby Dance?)
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Well that is enough to put me off sex. Do people seriously say that?





To answer the question, no he hasn't and even if he did then hey, that's his choice, both people have to be comfortable with sex in order for it to be enjoyable for both.

If he goes off it, I can take care of that myself.
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March 11th, 2013, 05:45 PM
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Sorry, maybe it's 'bed dance' I think baby dance is a TTC term.
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March 11th, 2013, 05:46 PM
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No, he's not scared to touch me but we're definitely not having sex as much since I got pregnant..it's a mixture of a few things.. I was sick from 5 weeks - 20 weeks so that slowed us down, then I started feeling better last week & he hurt his back at work so another set back, and the past few times we have done it we've had to definitely work around the bump, which wasn't a bad thing but I kinda miss doing it like "the old days"
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March 11th, 2013, 07:22 PM
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Yes, DH is afraid he's going to hurt the baby if he pushes to hard on my stomach even though we've had 2 kids. It still happens but not as much as before since I'm more tired than before we got pregnant and DH works rotating shift work but we make time for each other even though he feels that way.
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March 11th, 2013, 07:48 PM
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Sorry, maybe it's 'bed dance' I think baby dance is a TTC term.

If that is the case then we can have some fun with it

KTD kitchen table dance
BSOCD back seat of car dance
SD shower dance
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March 11th, 2013, 08:45 PM
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Nope! Steve is still trying to get it...it's me that's totally turned off (haha) to the whole idea of it. It's like - I'm tired, I've got to get up tomorrow for the kids and/or work and/or an appointment and I'd rather sleep....or ***** on jm
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March 11th, 2013, 09:34 PM
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I'm sorry mama I could see why that would bother and hurt you. Has he been to an appt and actually heard your Dr say it was OK? Maybe that will help matters?

I have a sore 'gina after sex, like it feels like I legit just gave birth to a 15lb baby sooooo sometimes I am fearful of sex, but I still do and he loves it and loves my baby body. I am lucky, I wouldn't be able to handle it any other way. We have a very physical relationship and are physical people. I would probably cry...all. the. time. if he didn't.
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March 12th, 2013, 05:49 AM
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Dh doesn't have a problem touching me. We've been through this whole thing 4 times now so we've got it down.
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March 12th, 2013, 07:54 AM
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I don't know what it exactly is... But we haven't in awhile.

Ever since he felt him kick.. I think it just solidified that there is a human being in there...

TMI: also.. My hubby is obsessed with my boobs. But it might freak him out that if they are squeezed and fondled... They leak. I guess it can be potentially awkward... If that happens to occur during sex.
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March 12th, 2013, 08:31 AM
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you ladies crack me up .. i laugh at almost at all the post ... It dont bother me much because i understand his logic but i just hate having to convince him it ok ... He havent heard the Dr say its ok so the next appt we go to together im going to make sure i make a issue to let the dr tell me its ok. ... Now that im have more energy i ready to get it in before i cant anymore ...lol
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March 12th, 2013, 09:54 AM
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DH has no problem with my pregnant body. it's me that wants nothing to do with it! i work a LOT. like, a LOT. plus we have a 4 y/o, so i'm exhausted all the time.
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March 12th, 2013, 10:42 AM
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Nope! Steve is still trying to get it...it's me that's totally turned off (haha) to the whole idea of it. It's like - I'm tired, I've got to get up tomorrow for the kids and/or work and/or an appointment and I'd rather sleep....or ***** on jm
Ditto, no desire, no energy, lots of other things I'd rather spend my time on
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March 12th, 2013, 10:49 AM
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DH loves my pregnant belly and loves the creativity that comes along.. I cant even remember a day that we havent DTD since being pregnant. lool.

I think thats a great idea though to get Dr to let your hubby know its ok..hope you get to use up some of that energy realllll soooon!!!
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March 12th, 2013, 01:21 PM
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I have no sex drive when pregnant and pregnant bellies totally freak my DH out. We havent had sex in a month and last time I dont think we had sex the last 3 months I was pregnant. As soon as DH begins to feel baby kick the idea just totally wierds him out. Like I said though I`m not really pushing for it or offended because I seriously have no interest right now and I know we will pick it right back up as soon as baby is out.
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