Getting Pregnant

Happy Song · #1 February 7th, 2012, 04:58 PM

So who is done having kids?

BeckyM · #2 February 7th, 2012, 05:50 PM

I'm in the unsure category. Part of me longs for another LO, the other part isn't sure. DH is the same way. I guess since I'll be 38 in a couple of months, we will have to decide at some point.

babyloves2dance · #3 February 7th, 2012, 06:47 PM

DH and I are pretty sure we are done.

Happy Song · #4 February 7th, 2012, 09:25 PM

My Dh is pretty sure he wants one more. I am ok with that except seriously our family should be completel at some point. I am 38 now and will be 39 in May so the clock is ticking.

BeckyM · #5 February 8th, 2012, 04:53 AM

I definitely understand the clock ticking....

and when I worked with the RE at age 35 to get pg with Mark, he told me my internal girl parts were about 5-10 years older then my actual age like a 40-45 year old woman at that time. But I had a fairly uneventful pg, and surprised everyone when I was able to work full-time up to 2 days before going into labor. Not bad for an "Advanced Maternal Age" woman. ;p

RobinX02 · #6 February 8th, 2012, 09:25 AM

We are 90% sure we are done. I know one Blaine isnt a baby anymore, Ill want another. But cant just keep having babies. We wil see after the other two are in school. But for now we are done.

Happy Song · #7 February 8th, 2012, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by BeckyM

I definitely understand the clock ticking....

and when I worked with the RE at age 35 to get pg with Mark, he told me my internal girl parts were about 5-10 years older then my actual age like a 40-45 year old woman at that time. But I had a fairly uneventful pg, and surprised everyone when I was able to work full-time up to 2 days before going into labor. Not bad for an "Advanced Maternal Age" woman. ;p

So I suffered infertility for 10 years adopting two kids as a single parent. Then got Quinn while on the pill. Then it took 7 more years and trying a infertility treatments. Six months after we quit I got pregnant with Scarlett. Then between Scarlett and Beau we had three losses. After Beau Tessa was a surprise, We were going to do FAM but I got pregnant without a PPAF. Right now we are NTNP.

Tamaralynnb · #8 February 8th, 2012, 03:30 PM

i'm pretty sure we are done, our financial situation wouldn't allow for another child, i feel guilty as it is that we can't get them into all the sports i would like. If we ever won the lottery(which is impossible since i don't buy tickets), then maybe we would try for a girl, but even then i think I am done. I am only 30 though, so i don't have to make the final decision now.

BeckyM · #9 February 8th, 2012, 05:07 PM

With us, we will have to made a definite decision if we're going to expand our family as we have no choice but to use MA. (severe MFI) We decided after Mark was born, to not talk about it until after he was 2. That's coming up quick. It is hard to believe he'll be 2 in a few months.