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January 2nd, 2013, 07:05 AM
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if people take classes on be insensitive obnoxious beaches.

sorry, just needed to vent.
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January 2nd, 2013, 07:11 AM
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Lol awe. rough day? I'm at the point where everyone drives me nuts and everything my poor dh says is taken the wrong way. God bless that man for loving me lol
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January 2nd, 2013, 07:17 AM
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Awe! I have days like that, too. but in this case, it's basically just this ONE person who is CONSTANTLY irritating me. Personality clash, maybe. I mean, hey, I actually have a bit of aspergers so I know sometimes I say things that come across wrong or don't "see" what I'm saying wrong even when it pisses people off, so who am I to judge this person. But whether they have aspergers or not, the fact remains they seem to be completely selfish, completely self-centered, completely self-absorbed, completely obnoxious, and completely inconsiderate. I even asked some other ppl who knew this person, and they basically said, "Yeah, she's like that. Sorry you have to deal with her." So at least I'm not alone in finding this person to be just a total beach (whether it's intentional or not). I try to ignore them as much as I can, but every now and then when they are trying to get attention, I give it to them trying to be nice, and I almost always end up regretting it, then go back to ignoring them for a while until the "be nice to this person" bug kicks in again, only to remind me AGAIN that I'm better off ignoring them. Ha. Will I never learn? Thanks for letting me vent
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January 2nd, 2013, 07:32 AM
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Anytime!

I don't like attention seekers. Honestly, when I don't like someone I just don't associate with them. I'm the "mean" one haha dh tells people I'm mean. I'm really not though! I just won't pretend to like someone if I think they are a vapid annoyance. If something someone says offends me or I find its disrespectful, I tell them so. I used to let people walk all over me and that's probably why I'm so blunt and all now lol
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Sorry you are dealing with someone like that I get annoyed when people say, "he/she is just like that, you just have to deal with it." I don't know why that comment bugs me so much... I guess it's mainly because the person I'm told this about is kind of nasty to my kids too (mainly Chase, Cole is too small) and I'm like, really, just because she is a raging b everyone had to learn to deal with her, even my 3 year old? Rubs me the wrong way!!!

I do the same thing Sarah. If someone is nasty enough I just don't associate with them anymore. Much easier and less stressful that way!

I can't do that with this particular person though....yet.
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January 2nd, 2013, 08:33 AM
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I admire you ladies! I never feel comfortable speaking up about that stuff, at least not when people are rude to me. I tend to be more vocal if they are rude to my friends or family, though.
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Being pregnant makes me even more vocal I think lol I just don't care when hormonal. My sister in law said I almost made her cry the other day because I expressed how ridiculous it was for her to take literally 2 hours to slather on her face and brush her hair... when she was only going to eat Bob Evans for breakfast. She never goes anywhere without a ton of makeup and man...I was hungry.... Don't stand in my way of good food.
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January 2nd, 2013, 09:14 AM
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Food (or lack there of!) is one thing that can make me a grouch, too! lol
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Manbeast says I am welcome mat, because I let them same people walk all over all the time. I just feel bad for not giving them another chance, thinking maybe they just had a bad day. maybe they didnt know they really hurt my feelings or whatver may be the case.
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yeah and somedays I think I teach the classes haha.
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Ditto!

And ditto to .H.e.a.t.h.e.r. LOL
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