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  #1  
March 20th, 2013, 04:30 PM
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How is he scoring so far this pregnancy? Has he been really involved, coming to appointments and feeling your belly? Does he help clean up, rub your feet, run out at 4am when you crave pickles and ice cream? Is he badgering you for some booty?
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March 20th, 2013, 04:33 PM
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My DH has been absolutely amazing! He has totally taken over care of our two year old and lets me sleep when Im tired! I was recently on bed rest and he took care of the whole house! I woke up the next morning and the house was spotless!!
He will text me or call me through out the day to see how I'm feeling and if I need anything. I am so lucky to have him!

I actually just got a nice long back rub about 15 minutes ago!
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March 20th, 2013, 04:45 PM
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Mine has been great. Attending all the appointments, excited about purchases, and talking to Blake all the time.

But, he is begging for booty and I am just so not in the mood!!
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March 20th, 2013, 04:48 PM
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Ditto, DH has been wonderful besides whining about not getting any.
Sorry, but I just don't feel like it . . . well, its more than that I don't WANT to at all.
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March 20th, 2013, 04:49 PM
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Mine has been gone, but has been there for me to vent to on Skype. However, he will soon be home and I'm so very thankful for that. He's told me that when he gets home I will finally be able to relax and lay in bed all day while he does everything else. He told me the one thing he's looking forward to most is blow drying and brushing my hair for me after showers. I have got a keeper!
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March 20th, 2013, 04:58 PM
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My hubby's been pretty awesome too. He talks to the baby and rubs my belly often. I'm on pelvic rest due to some bleeding issues so he's being a trooper about not getting any extras. He helps around the house when I ask and he indulges my cravings I think I'll keep him!
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March 20th, 2013, 07:01 PM
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My hubby has always been pretty amazing. He rubs my feet nightly even not pregnant and is always doing something to help me. I don't change a diaper when he's home. There isn't anything he doesn't do, he rocks my world, very blessed to call my husband..
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March 20th, 2013, 07:20 PM
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No real awesomeness here I'm lucky in that my DH works nights, so he's home in the afternoon and I can catch a nap if I need one. He doesn't have much choice though, and I don't think he's too happy about it, but oh well. He goes to the ultrasound appointments, but that's it. It snowed on Monday morning, and I had to take our youngest to his speech therapy appointment. Was DH out there cleaning the snow off my car? Nope, I was. Grrr. Oh and lots of whining about not getting any.
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March 20th, 2013, 10:41 PM
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Dh has been amazing, but he always has been very helpful, so this isn't something new <3
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March 20th, 2013, 11:49 PM
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Nothing new going on here, things are as they were before pregnancy. I think if I asked for more I would get it but hubby isn't volunteering much yet. My husband works nights too and I know that is already a lot to deal with all the time. He is awesome about missing sleep to go to appts or our older sons sporting games, even coaching but not much extra attention going into pregnancy. Maybe that's how it goes after you've btdt so many times?
I am just happy he is happy with life overall, because this baby wasn't planned and he was very pessimistic at first.
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March 21st, 2013, 02:27 AM
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Yea... not winning any competitions here. Nothing has changed. He works rough hours and days though. My appts are ALWAYS on days he works and he works out of state right now so I'm solo with those. I laugh because the first time he'll prob see the dr this while pregnant is when I'm in labor. He's not rubbed my feet or anything like that. Guess the 2nd time around for him isn't the same as the first time was. Grr... at least he's excited about having another baby though!
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March 21st, 2013, 04:55 AM
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My hubby's been pretty good so far! He works A LOT unfortunately so he's not always around to do it all, but when he's here he's good. He's also going to make me obese! lmao If I happen to mention, "Oh Taco Bell sounds good..." he's out the door getting it!
He tells me I get to have whatever I want because I'm pregnant (*I* have to remind him that it's not an excuse to eat though! lol); will rub my back and feet if I ask him to; been cleaning the house up for me and cooking dinner for us when I'm not feeling so great.

I think he'll do even more as the pregnancy continues and i really need the help (like when I'm swollen and miserable this summer lmao)
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March 21st, 2013, 05:08 AM
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Same old, same old. He is as helpful as always, which is quite a bit. He works from home, and I am now on maternity leave. So we are getting some of the extra stuff done that never gets done when I have to work.
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March 21st, 2013, 05:18 AM
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How is he scoring so far this pregnancy? Has he been really involved, coming to appointments and feeling your belly? Does he help clean up, rub your feet, run out at 4am when you crave pickles and ice cream? Is he badgering you for some booty?
Is it bad my mind went straight to the gutter? Thinking you meant how much sex is he getting, lmao. He's one of the kind of people that its not real until he can feel it. No appointments for him, he s always working, and we need the money its not worth him taking off work to see how much I weigh.
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March 21st, 2013, 06:24 AM
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Funny I'm reading this this morning since I almost called my husband on the way to work this morning to tell him that he needs to help me out more. I don't want to have to ask him to do more, but apparently he is deaf, dumb and blind to my struggles right now.
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March 21st, 2013, 08:24 AM
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My husband always has a few things he does for me around the house like dishes (EW!) and he does his cat's litter box, takes out the trash, and puts the cans on the curb. During pregnancy (and school), he's taken over doing the laundry for me because I fell down the stairs last pregnancy. He's a little distant because he's scared. We had a loss at 13 weeks and he took it as hard as I did, so he takes a little while before he will get attached but also with the anterior placenta, we can't feel much yet anyway. He picks up my cravings for me but my sex drive is higher than his.
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March 21st, 2013, 08:31 AM
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My hubs has been amazing. He is so excited about this little one and is constantly talking to my belly and helping out in every way. It's going to be a huge adjustment when he leaves (week & 1/2). I honestly don't know how I'm going to do it all by myself. I've been spoiled!
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March 21st, 2013, 08:41 AM
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Yes, he comes to appointments and accomodates my cravings.

The last month he has been working 12 hour days and I HATE it! I hardly get to see him except for the weekends. He leaves at 5am for the gym and then doesn't get home until about 8pm. UGH
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March 21st, 2013, 09:48 AM
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My hubby is always pretty great, but especially since we have had a rough time getting pregnant and we are thrilled about twins, he's been so helpful. He's cooking more, cleaning more, and can't stop talking about the babies. I've got it pretty good.
Mom2RickyRanaJavier, I thought the exact same thing. Lol.
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