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March 27th, 2013, 07:16 PM
mrsmckenzie1's Avatar Veteran
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Ok, so this is not my first cerclage, but this is my first bed rest where my paycheck was actually needed in the household...

I went in with the well awareness that if I still was short a cerclage was going to be out in. So sure enough he wand goes in, and BAM 2.4 with a slight funnel, soooooooo I went to the coldest room in the hospital and waited for 2 hours and got my pinch...

So much of this preventive care makes my pregnancy feel so well, I don't have a word... inept comes to mind. I always just wanted a drug free natural vaginal delivery, but I do want a healthy baby. The nicy thing was not it for me and I will feel horrible if I have to watch another baby between thick glass walls.

So I asked my peri if I can go back to work or at least have papers saying that I can before the end of the year or I will not be paid through the end of year... I will see tomorrow when I go pick them up if my prayers were answered..

On a brighter note, i have been preparing for baby, one sale at a time :-)

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March 27th, 2013, 10:24 PM
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I hope that after today things calm down and go better for you! Happy thoughts and prayers for you and baby!
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March 27th, 2013, 10:49 PM
ElliotsMommy13's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I hope you get your way to keep that pay.. but glad your doctor is on top of everything to give you that preventative piece of mind.

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March 28th, 2013, 03:32 AM
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pray you keep your pay
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March 28th, 2013, 04:53 AM
Momma2Chase's Avatar August 2013 DDC Co-Host
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I'm so glad they are able to help out, though!

I hope he writes the letter exactly how you need it!

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*Kiliki* for my beautiful signature!*

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March 28th, 2013, 06:13 AM
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glad everything went well and hope the doctor will give you whatever the best orders are that will keep your baby safe, you healthy, and hopefully also leaves you a way to keep your income.
Thank you Jaidynsmum for the beautiful siggy!
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March 28th, 2013, 08:27 AM
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Glad that it is over with and hope that you get back to work!
~Thanks to Kiliki for my beautiful signature~

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March 28th, 2013, 08:36 AM
soccermamatomany's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Would you qualify for state disability? I know when I was put on bedrest with my twins, I was paid out my vacation and sick time (about 3 weeks or so) and then went on state disability. I know it doesn't completely replace your paycheck, but it surely does help!

Hope all goes well.
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DD: 18yo
Twin DDs: 14 yo
DS: 9yo
Step DD: 15yo
Step DD: 11yo
Rayna-August 18, 2013!
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March 28th, 2013, 04:30 PM
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Thanks ladies!

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