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May 22nd, 2013, 02:01 PM
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How in the world are you DDT if you are still???? With my DD it was no problem and although my drive is basically gone now with this pregnancy i try to help DH out BUT seriously I thought I had become a hospice patient, all out of breathe doing nothing, very geriatric symptoms all I could do was laugh and think WTH??? Needless to say not too sure about continuing DTD while preggers!
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May 22nd, 2013, 02:06 PM
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Ha. It's a joke. I told DH I feel like Humpty Dumpty LOL
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May 22nd, 2013, 02:10 PM
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We still have a very active sex life. I do feel awkward being so round, but we still manage.
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May 22nd, 2013, 02:17 PM
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LOL!!!! @ Mamalamb

****TMI ALERT****

My sex drive has been pretty much non existent this entire pregnancy and even though we do still DTD every now and then it is very different lol

I don't like being on top anymore because I get worried of him going um... too far into things lol plus it hurts! Also my discharge has changed and my skin gets easily irritated so sometimes it starts feeling "raw" or too dry so then we have to stop... ugh I feel so bad for him! One night I totally started crying like a baby because I felt so bad that I couldn't finish our session! AND I don't like doing anything too... dirty if that makes sense?!! I feel all overly sensitive about everything now and not sexy at all! He will ask if he can do things which I used to think was hot before but now?!! Ewww NO! Poor guy deserves a reward like seriously... lol

Just stay open with each other about what you're feeling is all I can say! The fact that you two can laugh about it is amazing Better than crying like I did! LOL!!!
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May 22nd, 2013, 02:37 PM
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I have no sex life lol. I tried, I really did but ugh n when we did do something neither of us was into it. he starts noticing i'm uncomfortable n i'm ready for it to be over. *tmi* but he doesn't seem to want to do quickies, im like we cant go as long as we use to lol. bam bean-o stays kicking whenever we get close enough and thats not sexy. it seem like we not gone be doing anything till its okay after I give birth.
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May 22nd, 2013, 02:40 PM
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You cracked me up with the hospice patient joke. (I know it can be a serious matter) We are barely DTD either at this point. With my groin and hips hurting so badly it's just getting too painful at this point. I still want to do it with him but he is being very patient and understanding! He's a trooper!
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May 22nd, 2013, 02:46 PM
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Glad i am not alone in this DH has been extremely understanding that's why I said I will try to give him something lol!!!!

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LOL!!!! @ Mamalamb

****TMI ALERT****

My sex drive has been pretty much non existent this entire pregnancy and even though we do still DTD every now and then it is very different lol

I don't like being on top anymore because I get worried of him going um... too far into things lol plus it hurts! Also my discharge has changed and my skin gets easily irritated so sometimes it starts feeling "raw" or too dry so then we have to stop... ugh I feel so bad for him! One night I totally started crying like a baby because I felt so bad that I couldn't finish our session! AND I don't like doing anything too... dirty if that makes sense?!! I feel all overly sensitive about everything now and not sexy at all! He will ask if he can do things which I used to think was hot before but now?!! Ewww NO! Poor guy deserves a reward like seriously... lol

Just stay open with each other about what you're feeling is all I can say! The fact that you two can laugh about it is amazing Better than crying like I did! LOL!!!

We are one in the same hun even down to the not wanting to do anything too dirty!!!!!
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May 22nd, 2013, 03:00 PM
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I have no sex life lol. I tried, I really did but ugh n when we did do something neither of us was into it. he starts noticing i'm uncomfortable n i'm ready for it to be over. *tmi* but he doesn't seem to want to do quickies, im like we cant go as long as we use to lol. bam bean-o stays kicking whenever we get close enough and thats not sexy. it seem like we not gone be doing anything till its okay after I give birth.
Omg I would FREAK out if Baby Rose starting kicking during it LOL!!! That would totally kill the mood for me too >_< She gets really still and I don't know if it's because she fell asleep from the movement or because she's like, "What the heck is going on out there... o_O" Lol!
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May 22nd, 2013, 03:03 PM
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Rayna usually gets active after our sessions. lol
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May 22nd, 2013, 03:03 PM
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We don't really do it :/ much to DHs dismay. It's awkward and uncomfortable and sometimes painful so I try to avoid it if possible. Finding a good position is really hard too, almost not worth it lol
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May 22nd, 2013, 03:04 PM
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Ava kicked and it just completely turned me off, I know she was like what in the world is going on!!!!!!!!
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I have ZERO interest in sex with this pregnancy. It kinda sucks I "give in" once in a while - maybe once every couple weeks. Dh isn't too fond of the arrangement but he understands.
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May 22nd, 2013, 04:03 PM
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TMI ahead..

We are averaging 2-3 x a week, mostly weekends when we can sleep in just a bit. Some are quickies, some are longer. Things that work for us include; extra lube bc pregnancy can cause things to become extra dry, and switching positions often. We haven't felt baby kicking during the actual deed but he does become active afterwards when we're cuddling. My husband actually LOVES my pregnant belly and to be honest, becuase this is my last pregnancy, I'm really enjoying my round tummy
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May 22nd, 2013, 04:13 PM
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TMI ahead..

We are averaging 2-3 x a week, mostly weekends when we can sleep in just a bit. Some are quickies, some are longer. Things that work for us include; extra lube bc pregnancy can cause things to become extra dry, and switching positions often. We haven't felt baby kicking during the actual deed but he does become active afterwards when we're cuddling. My husband actually LOVES my pregnant belly and to be honest, becuase this is my last pregnancy, I'm really enjoying my round tummy
I am soooo jealous... That's great you guys are so active and enjoying your baby bump! Also that your hubby loves your pregnant body! Same with my BF which is another addition to me feeling bad we don't do it more often. He is always telling me how beautiful I am and sexy and I look in the mirror and am like, "WHAT?!! Where....?" Lol Maybe we need to go pick up some lube from the store... haven't tried any yet because I was worried about it irritating my skin down there. Like I said I am super sensitive for some reason! :O

Any suggestions on brands ladies? Lol I have tried KY Warming and NO NO NO! Nothing with any kind of "enhancement" will work for me because it turns into liquid fire pretty much lol
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May 22nd, 2013, 04:24 PM
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He does all the work, and we are pretty much stick with doggy style, because if I open my legs more than I need to sit on the toilet, I feel like someon is breaking my legs off, lmao. But then I feel like someone hit me with a baseball bat for a week, and we don't even do it rough. Omg sorry for all the tmi!
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May 22nd, 2013, 04:26 PM
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This is way TMI, but I have lube from a sex shop that I have had since before I got pregnant that works great (for the life of me I can't remember the name of it right now)! It isn't a cooling or heating gel (I hate those!). Maybe you should try that? You can order online if you are too embarrassed to go get it in person.
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May 22nd, 2013, 04:41 PM
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This is way TMI, but I have lube from a sex shop that I have had since before I got pregnant that works great (for the life of me I can't remember the name of it right now)! It isn't a cooling or heating gel (I hate those!). Maybe you should try that? You can order online if you are too embarrassed to go get it in person.
If you remember let me know!!! We have tried so many types like regular KY... Astroglide and they're either too sticky.. or dry out themselves too quickly! I know we had a tiny sample of Anal Lube which we used for regular sex because yeah no, not doing the back door thing lol and it worked pretty well so maybe we'll get some more of that?

Oh don't worry I'm not shy at all, I guess I could always go into a store and ask! LOL!! Every body is different though so it's hard to say, "This one works for everyone!"

I need to try something... poor BF is suffering lol
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May 22nd, 2013, 04:49 PM
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Really... I don't dtd much at all now.

I wish we did but dh is only home 2 weeks out of the month anyways and the positioning is awkward now. The way I enjoy usually doing it, isn't as easy now.

Oh and Astroglide is our lube of choice.
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2-3x a week still. It still pretty much is going on every which way it can. We aren't having any issues with this pregnancy.
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:53 PM
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We use "just like me" from Pure Romance! It's not sticky or slimy but just lubricating enough to help finish the deed
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