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August 19th, 2013, 09:45 AM
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For the past month she's had planned to take off today and tomorrow to help me out since I had the C-Section and my hubby had to go back to work today. I called her yesterday to see what the plan was because she acted like she didn't want to come over. I understand she's tired from working and covering 2 shifts because my sister is so lazy and won't get a job. Anyways, I called her yesterday and she just asked me "What time do you need me there tomorrow? And don't make it too early." I told her don't worry about it, I don't need any help if it's going to be a bother. She said to call her in the morning. Fast forward to this morning, I call her and she tells me how she needs to leave early IF she comes over today because she has to take my 26 year old sister to the doctors. I told her don't worry about coming over, I'll be fine. She calls me like 30 mins after our call and she tells me "I have to take your sister out to DSS to sign some papers." Really? She can't do ANYTHING on her own? So my Mom tells me that "I might stop by later on and see if you need help." Am I being over sensitive about this? I mean, I honestly thought she was going to come help me, instead, she goes and jumps to help my sister or do everything for her. I now have to figure out how to get Mason to the drs. office tomorrow for his check up since I can't drive and I can't count on her to help me and Hubby can't leave work early.
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August 19th, 2013, 10:01 AM
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I'd definitely be annoyed! What is it with siblings and their neediness and not being able to do anything on their own?! My brother is the exact same way and it drives me nuts. Wants everyone to drop everything for him but then when I need something, no one can be bothered! I hope you can find someone to take him to the doctor. Can you reschedule til you can drive later?
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August 19th, 2013, 10:29 AM
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Not over sensitive at all I would be annoyed as well!!!! Your sister is old enough to do things on her own....I might not be too annoyed if she said I am taking her to some job interviews...other than that it would annoy me!
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August 19th, 2013, 10:44 AM
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The hospital said he needed to be seen within a week of coming home. I guess I'll just have to drive myself if it comes down to it. I don't have much of a choice unless my MIL can take me if she gets out of court early enough.

And I wouldn't have been as annoyed if she was taking her to an interview too, but again, she should be doing that on her own, not having my Mom drive her.

My Mom saw Mason the day he was born. Then she stopped by after work on Thursday when I came home from the hospital. I haven't seen her since and she lives about a mile from me. I'm thinking she's being this way because I won't allow my sister or her to bring over her 2 kids because she never watches them and I'm the one who has to discipline them and I don't want my house destroyed.
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August 19th, 2013, 11:24 AM
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What a pain in the butt for you! I'm sorry she did this-- and I don't blame you one bit for being upset. Your sister is clearly old enough to not be so dependant on your mom
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August 19th, 2013, 11:44 AM
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At 26 years old your sister should be doing things on her own. That is just silly.... time to cut the cord!
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August 19th, 2013, 01:02 PM
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I tell my Mom all the time she needs to cut the cord and she's the reason my sister is the way she is. I've also said, and I know it's a mean thing to say, but if something happens to my Mom, I'm not taking care of my sister. Her and her kids are not my responsibility. It's not my fault she chose 2 dead beat losers to be the fathers of her kids.

My Mom did call me about an hour ago to tell me she will be over tomorrow around 9:30-10:00am. I told her that she didn't need to. She said "I have to take you to the drs." I said "It's okay, it's not a far drive, I can go by myself." She said "No, I'm going to take you." I guess we'll see if she shows.
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