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March 7th, 2013, 04:36 PM
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Hello again.

I just wanted to let you know that I am miscarrying. I hate to say, "finally", but it has been such an emotional roller coaster that it's a relief to have closure. I'm heartbroken and wish things could have gone in a more positive direction, but such is life. I am just ready to move on and try again.

I went in to the dr. yesterday for a scheduled appt to get another look to find out if the baby could possibly be in there. As soon as I got to work, I started spotting. But I went to the appt anyway. She did the transvaginal and saw that the placenta had started to change shape and that was a sign that it had started detaching itself from the uterus. I had officially started to miscarry. When she said that, I felt like I already knew. It just felt good to finally have an answer. Not the one I wanted, but it felt good not to have to wonder anymore.

Today hasn't been easy. I basically feel like I am having a horrific period, but it hasn't been unbearable. I guess the worst part of my day was having my friend/ co-worker call me from work today letting me know that she is taking my client because I "chose" not to come in and do my job today. If any of you have read my rant on her jealousy issue, you will know who I am talking about and how she has done something similar in the past. Its pretty amazing how awful people can be...just plain hurtful.

Anyway, being this will be my last post in here, I just wanted to update you all and rant for a second. I thank you all for listening and always being there with hugs, prayers, opinions, and help through the devastating times. I wish you all well and pray you all have beautiful, healthy babies. I know you all are and will be amazing mothers. We may be considered strangers, but you have all shown so much more love and kindness than people that I have actually called friends. Thank you again, and good luck. (I will be stalking you from afar!)
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March 7th, 2013, 04:43 PM
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i'm so sorry!!
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March 7th, 2013, 04:43 PM
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Ugh, I'm so sorry that your co-worker was so rude to you. Doesn't sound like much of a "friend" to me. Did she know what was going on, too?

I'm really sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you know for sure now and you can have some closure. Wishing you peace and healing as you recover physically and emotionally. If it isn't too hard for you, please pop in from time to time and let us know how you're doing!
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March 7th, 2013, 04:47 PM
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So so sorry. Wish I could make you feel but I know that's not possible. Wishing healthy babies to you in the future again so sorry.
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March 7th, 2013, 04:52 PM
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I don't even have the words to tell you how sorry I am. I hope that you'll heal from this, and go on to have beautiful, healthy babies.
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March 7th, 2013, 05:08 PM
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Thank you thank you And yes, she knows whats going on. She is just a heartless you know what.
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March 7th, 2013, 05:20 PM
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I'm sorry you are going through this. The waiting is always the worst.. so finally knowing what is happening is a bitter sweet thing.

And your "friend" is being a B word!
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March 7th, 2013, 05:35 PM
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I am so sorry for you loss
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March 7th, 2013, 05:43 PM
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I'm so sorry
And I think moving forward this 'friend' should simply be referred to as co-worker. You do not need someone that self-centred & rude in your personal life.
I wish you all the best.
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March 7th, 2013, 05:48 PM
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I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this. When I saw you posted I was hoping it was good news . I would tell that "friend" exactly where she can shove it!
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March 7th, 2013, 07:08 PM
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I am so sorry for you loss.
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March 7th, 2013, 09:27 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad things started happening on their own for you so you can start the healing process. The waiting is so hard
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March 7th, 2013, 10:19 PM
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Heartbreaking. So sorry! your coworker is just plain mean. HUGS to you.
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March 8th, 2013, 04:09 AM
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March 8th, 2013, 05:55 AM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this! Sending love, hugs and prayers your way!
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March 8th, 2013, 08:54 AM
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Sorry for your loss and wish you the best in trying again in the future!
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March 8th, 2013, 09:04 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss! I have no words abt your co-worker. Some people just amaze me!
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March 8th, 2013, 09:15 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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