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March 18th, 2013, 10:47 AM
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I'd like to tell you all that I would really like to stay in touch with you! I have truly loved my time here. The last 6 weeks have been my truly happiest time. I have loved sharing my pregnancy with all of you. Now that I am not 'oficially' a part of this DDC anymore ( ), a part of my heart is broken not being able to hang out with all of you every day. I'd still like to watch you all go through your pregnancies and having your sweet babies. As much as I wish I was a part of this, it's hard enough having to give up my pregnancy and my dreams without having to give up my friendships with all of you. I am sad enough and heartbroken enough without having to think about losing all of you as well I really hope this does not come across as really strange. I know that most people who lose babies stay away from the DDC's, but right now I think that would just make it all the more heartbreaking for me. I never got to share my pregnancy with my family and friends, but I was able to share it with all of you and for a while there you were all like a part of my extended family. Anyway, if any of you would like to keep in touch with me, you can add me to facebook - www.facebook.com/abacobaby
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March 18th, 2013, 11:06 AM
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I don't do the FB thing, but you are more than welcome to keep in touch here! I'm sure none of us mind having you around & "creeping" us here!
I don't think it's strange at all...I know what you mean. I can't say for sure what I would do, but I do know where your thought process is coming friend.
Look forward to keeping you on board!
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March 18th, 2013, 12:34 PM
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I just sent you a friend request and please stick around!! It's not weird at all, and if it doesn't make you too uncomfortable, I know for a fact everyone here would be thrilled if you stayed! My heart is broken for you, but so glad that we get to stay in touch!
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March 18th, 2013, 12:41 PM
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I don't have a fb account at the moment, but am very happy to hear that you are interested in staying in touch with us. I can imagine that being here would be triggering to some mothers who have suffered losses, but you seem to have a different way of looking at things, which I think is really great.

By the way, I'm not even close to forgetting about you - you've been on my mind every single day.

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March 18th, 2013, 12:57 PM
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March 18th, 2013, 01:53 PM
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Stick around, we are here. Im so sorry for your loss, and friends is what you need at this present time. Ones that knew of your situation and your pregnancy who can offer much needed support for the new transition. HUGS
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March 18th, 2013, 02:20 PM
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I agree! Stick around here if you feel up to it!
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March 18th, 2013, 04:07 PM
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Sending u a friend request! And yes, of course, please stick around
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March 18th, 2013, 05:18 PM
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I would definitely love for you to keep popping in as long as you're okay with that.
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March 18th, 2013, 05:23 PM
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Please stick around for as long as you want.
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March 18th, 2013, 07:11 PM
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March 18th, 2013, 11:59 PM
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March 19th, 2013, 08:15 AM
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HUGS - Please do stick around if you feel like it
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March 19th, 2013, 09:11 AM
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No where close to forgetting you Yes please stalk us and post here whenever you feel up to it.
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March 19th, 2013, 10:08 AM
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I don't think its strange at all! We will always be here for you

I haven't been around much lately, but I wanted to say I am so sorry for what you went through. I think about you all the time.
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March 19th, 2013, 01:20 PM
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Of course stick around if you feel you'd like to... I would worry about you getting upset and feeling left out more than just being here when you're not pregnant anymore.

It's not strange at all. I had a m/c in August and tried to stay away from my DDC but clicked on my JM bookmark a few times out of habit which took me straight to my DDC. It was so upsetting. Then I ended up giving in and reading everyone's posts and looking at belly pics.

It's so hard. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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March 19th, 2013, 01:42 PM
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Stick around here, if you feel ok with it. I am also sending you a friend req.
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March 19th, 2013, 02:14 PM
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Been thinking of you. So sorry for what you've had to go through. Stick around here if you'd like. Sent you a friend request.
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