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  #1  
March 26th, 2013, 11:03 PM
Happy Song's Avatar Nicole
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I know a few of us have had losses...

How many have you had?
Do you have a rainbow baby yet?
How are you handling this pregnancy?
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March 26th, 2013, 11:13 PM
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How many have you had? Four "scout" 5/09 Rebecca 9/09 Alexander 11/09 Seth Joseph 9/13/2012

Do you have a rainbow baby yet? Beau 9/10/2010 Tessa 10/28/2011

How are you handling this pregnancy? I am ok. Slightly paranoid. I do not want to go to the doctor at all. I am trying to decide if a Doppler is a good idea or would just make me crazy.
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March 27th, 2013, 05:23 AM
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Thank you for posting this question! I am very curious about the answers! Having just had a recent loss myself, I'm of course now freaked out over the next time, if we decide to ttc.
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March 27th, 2013, 06:03 AM
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Rainbow baby Taryn, Jacob Oxley and pregnant
I freak out all the time. I am so happy I throw up so I know things are on track. Sad to say
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March 27th, 2013, 06:29 AM
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I've had 3 losses, 2007, 2011, 2012

The twins were after my first loss and now I'm pregnant again

I'm feeling more confident. I always panic right before my appointments, but they are following me super close!
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March 27th, 2013, 06:55 AM
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my first pregnancy was a loss, early, at 5w4d. i got pregnant with tyler 7 months later. I had a much easier/less worried pregnancy with emily but i feel like i'm pregnant for the first time all over again this time. i'm worried about everything.
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March 27th, 2013, 06:56 AM
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How many have you had? 4 losses, with an RPL diagnosis of Factor II (hetero), elevated anticardiolipins and a later diagnosis of progesterone deficiency. Only my 4th loss was confirmed as being caused by non-RPL issues (trisomy loss)

Do you have a rainbow baby yet? Savannah was my rainbow baby after 1st loss, this baby will hopefully be my pot of gold after the last 3 losses

How are you handling this pregnancy? I take all of my pregnancies day by day. Now that this pregnancy has progressed past the point of all of my prior losses, we're becoming more hopeful.
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March 27th, 2013, 07:15 AM
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How many have you had? 2 - Feb 14, 2011 & Dec 11, 2012

Do you have a rainbow baby yet? Not yet.

How are you handling this pregnancy? At first, I didn't handle it well. I was a mess. We tried so hard to get pregnant after my first M/C, Metformin, Clomid, Soy Iso etc.. And nothing happened. We gave up and got pregnant in Nov 2012. The second M/C almost killed me. I avoided sex until New Years, when we had a drunken quickie that resulted in this little one. Now that I'm into my second trimester, a first for me, my paranoia is slowly subsiding. I'm becoming more comfortable with that fact that this is probably going to be my rainbow baby.
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March 27th, 2013, 07:51 AM
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I had two losses in 2002. Then went on to have my first son and 3 more blessings after that with no problems.

I'm with you about the whole doppler thing. I'm super paranoid about not feeling much movement at all yet. Doesn't help either that I'm asked almost daily how much the baby is moving by the MIL.
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March 27th, 2013, 08:26 AM
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Just one at 13 weeks. My last baby was my rainbow baby. This pregnancy was scary and hard but I feel a lot better than I did. I'm still nervous but not nearly as much.
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March 27th, 2013, 12:26 PM
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I had a loss in 1998 with 3 babies after that. My second loss was the week I turned 40 last year. I'm handling this one as well as can be expected. I'm 15 weeks Saturday and all my visits have gone well.

I have been debating the Doppler idea too.
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March 27th, 2013, 01:20 PM
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2 losses, although one was a live birth. My Son Avery was born prematurely with Triploidy XXY. He lived for 3 hours until we took him off of life support. My second loss was a miscarriage last November at 5w4d I believe.

Two rainbow babies after Avery. Hoping this pregnancy will be my first rainbow baby after my last loss.

I am paranoid like crazy during this pregnancy. I am wanting to buy a doppler so I can calm my nerves but dont have the extra $60 to spend right now because of easter and birthday parties. I have mini panic attacks everyday thinking the baby has died inside me and I just am not aware of it. My kids want to come into the room with me when I have my ultrasound next month, but I am making them wait a little bit before coming in... just in case there is not heartbeat. :/
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March 27th, 2013, 01:48 PM
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How many have you had? 4 losses
Do you have a rainbow baby yet? 2 rainbow babies (October 2000 and September 2009)
How are you handling this pregnancy? I'm terrified as I don't know what to expect, especially with my upcoming results. Praying for good.


eta I guess my first son was a rainbow baby 2 years after a loss, but I don't consider it
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March 27th, 2013, 02:34 PM
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How many have you had? 2 losses
Do you have a rainbow baby yet? I'm hoping this is our rainbow baby
How are you handling this pregnancy? I've been freaking out this time. My first pregnancy went to full term and died during labour. My second loss was at seven weeks.
So I have had loss at both points. I dont think I will feel okay once I am holding baby
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March 27th, 2013, 04:34 PM
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How many have you had? one or two depending on how you look at it. I had a blighted ovum and a m/c at 6 weeks.

Do you have a rainbow baby yet?what's a rainbow baby?

How are you handling this pregnancy? Fine. Was concerned about my age, and another m/c.. but, I know without a doubt that this whole pregnancy was orchestrated by God, so he is in control.

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How many have you had? 2 losses
Do you have a rainbow baby yet? I'm hoping this is our rainbow baby
How are you handling this pregnancy? I've been freaking out this time. My first pregnancy went to full term and died during labour. My second loss was at seven weeks.
So I have had loss at both points. I dont think I will feel okay once I am holding baby
HUGS.. That is SO sad.
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March 27th, 2013, 11:27 PM
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How many have you had? 3. I have MTHFR and low progesterone. All 3 losses were Clomid babies, one being an IUI baby. Angel #1 6/2010; angel #2 11/2010; angel #3 was our IUI baby and that was the third in a row with 16 months of fertility treatments in 7/2011.
Do you have a rainbow baby yet? Decided to break from treatments right after loss #3. Took soy isoflavones instead and got pregnant that very cycle with Rylan.
How are you handling this pregnancy? I'm pretty mellow. Having a Doppler at home helps.
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March 28th, 2013, 08:03 AM
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How many have you had? Three.. 2010, 2011 and 2012. The first was a natural pregnancy that ended very early, the second was from IVF.. just after 6 weeks. We did two FETs that just didn't work at all. The third was from an IUI in August that was right after 6 weeks. I have MTHFR along with a few other things.

Do you have a rainbow baby yet? No.. hoping this one is it!

How are you handling this pregnancy? Honestly I am a nervous wreck. Every day I am paranoid something will happen. We have a doppler, and that does help me not to stress too much. I want to enjoy pregnancy, but really I just want the baby to be here.
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