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Had my first appointment today with the new OB and wasn't too impressed. We waited forever, then the nurse asked me all of the questions that I had JUST answered on my paperwork, then the doctor came in and asked me ALL of the same questions, listened to the heartbeat and shook our hands.
The receptionist had told me he would do a thorough examination, including an ultrasound. Then, the nurse said he would likely have me scheduled for an ultrasound in a couple of days or he may do it today. Then, the doctor told me that they will schedule me for an ultrasound in about 6 weeks...so not what I was expecting.
Plus, I have to go to a lab for any blood tests, which I know is fairly normal but it's not at all what I am used to. My previous OB did all blood tests in office.
Since I was expecting an ultrasound today and to potentially be able to find out the gender, I was, obviously, pretty disappointed. I called a place that's about 2 hours away and I am scheduled for an elective ultrasound to find out the gender on Saturday!
I am also going to be meeting with a homebirth midwife on Monday and after my appointment today, I honestly think that's the route I want to go. I just want to be treated like a human. I want to feel like somebody cares. We have nobody up here and the last thing I want is an obstetrician who has to read my chart just to remember my name. I also submitted some information to find out what my insurance will cover for a homebirth, so I am just hoping to find out some good news there!
I can totally sympathize.. I struggled with deciding on an OB.. I even changed my insurance to get a civilian OB vs. a military one. I am not very impressed with her at all. I tried to change my insurance back, but I can't for a year. So, I am stuck... it's good you have an elective ultrasound place near and get to find out soon :-)
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offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3
How frustrating! I would have said "I was told I would get an u/s, so you better give me one!" Its like none of them communicate with each other at all.
I like my doctor, but when I went for my first visit with him it was so rushed. Squeeze here, poke there, congratulations, see you later... My RE before this was amazing, so I am used to that. He was so nice and funny and took all the time in the world with us. OB offices are NOTHING like that. Makes me sad.
Yay for your gender scan! I would have done the same thing
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Finding is a decent OB is soooo hard!! I am not too impressed with mine either and i am bracing myself to fight her every step of the way when it comes to interventions! Good luck in your midwife search
Ugh, I'm so sorry that your OB appointment didn't go as well as you hoped. That doesn't sound like a great appointment to me either. I was disappointed that I had to move my anatomy/gender scan by 3 days. I would have been crushed to have to wait several more weeks. Glad that you were able to get an elective U/S in anyway, and can't wait to hear which team you're going to be on this time!
I hope that you end up with someone you feel really confident with, whether that's an OB or a midwife (and can I say how awesome I think it is that you're considering that route? ).