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Originally, we were supposed to have a relatively small party at my parent's vacation home. It's a beautiful house on the water. Fishing, spring breeze, open porches..... SIGH.
Anyway, of course that's not happening for whatever reason and INSTEAD, I'm hosting the part at my apartment. Which also means I had to invite 2 sets of neighbors and their children. My place is SMALL... And with 6 people living here its already cramped. My in laws are coming... Which never fails to send me into a stress spiral vortex from which I rarely recover.
So yesterday, I was busting my *** getting everything clean and the hubs started playing a video game.
I absolutely lost. My. ****.
Told him to go **** himself and get the **** out of my ******* house. Thank God my children were outside. I NEVER talk to my husband that way. Not EVER! But seriously, I was hysterical. Screaming and crying and telling him I hated him. Where does that crazy **** even come from? He had been helping ALL day so it's not as if I was even justified.
Luckily, he found the whole thing fairly hilarious. And when I finally broke down and wailed "I just hate being pregnant SO much!!" He basically just kissed me and put me down for a nap.
Anyone else going on totally unjustified tirades lately?
Oh gosh.. I would have lost it too. Its funny but its not. You have a very good DH that understands the pregnancy moments.
I actually had a moment earlier with DH. He is at work for the week and that house is horrible. So I did the vacuuming, dusting, cleaned the kitchen.. so when he called earlier I was mad. When he is home he doesn't help unless I ASK him to. So he never dusts, cleans bathrooms.. nothing. He told me "just tell me and I will" NO I want you to take INITIATIVE! I don't think its too much to ask
"Sometimes all you can do is not think. Not wonder. Not obsess. Not imagine.
Just Breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best."
Thank you Jaidynsmum for my beautiful siggy
We've been laughing about it all day I really don't go off like that normally... especially since he didn't earn it. He had spent the day cleaning house while I went shopping for birthday stuff, so it's not as if he was sitting around doing nothing. I feel guilty for getting so angry. Luckily he took the screaming rage well and was able to calm my crazy *** down.
It ended up being a pretty decent day. My MIL was almost 3 HOURS late, but whatever... Sebastian had a wonderful time, so I'm happy