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Location: Where the grass grows and there's lots of trees
I think I probably shouldn't rant.. but I just need to.. about so many things.. like..
My hubby! I was in the shower, he came in to use the bathroom and just threw my towel on the floor.... doesn't he understand how inconsiderate it is... not only just because, but because I am 9 months pregnant.. when is the consideration going to start???? And he wants nothing to do with me physically... unless he has help in that department.. so I've finally decided that I'm just going to stay away from him and do my own thing... I'm not sure how he's getting that need met when I'm off working nights.... but as far as I'm concerned, it is a rejection.. and a slap in the face.. so writing him off right now..
And he tells me he's going home at night while I'm in the hospital.. ok, well I'll need his help.. and that would be understandable if say he wanted to sleep in his own bed.. (but he doesn't sleep at night.. he plays on the computer).... or if we had other kids that needed tending too (we don't, my other kids will be with their biological dad).. or even if he didn't have a computer... isn't that why he just insisted that we had to have a lap top.. and bought one... so he could use it in the hospital.
I am so sick of him right now! He does do other things that shows he loves me like recently wrote a love letter and cleaning... but still... I feel rejected...
Then we have facebook.. where I rant on things I like and dislike anymore... ppl are starting to express their disapproval.. and I want to say "sucks for you.. I don't care if you like what I have to say or not".. however my friend list is limited to family members mainly and old close friends.. so I don't want to burn bridges..
But I do have this one friend who I am just getting so sick of because she is constantly posting pics of herself and asking people to comment and compliment her... seriously???? You don't ask for compliments... I mean I know she's desperate and lonely... but still... and I've tolerated it but now the pics are getting sexier and sexier for attention seeking purposes.. I'm about to unfriend her... unfortunately I'll always have to see her because she's my kids neighbor.. and I ask myself... do I really want to burn that bridge...
All I can is don't f*** with me right... unless you want your head handed to you on a platter... messing with a hormonal pregnant women is not wise!
Big hugs!!! I would have been pissed if DH threw my towel on the floor. I am the type that will do something back just to piss him off too. Like take all his stuff and throw it on the floor.
He left a mess out when he left for work for a week. I asked him multiple times to pick it up before he left.. he didn't. So I put ALL of it in a garbage back and put it on his desk. When he got home he kept asking for stuff.. I said check your trash bag. HA!
And about FB.. its your FB.. do what you want. If anyone is bothering me I just block them. Like the friend posting her pictures. You can hide some of her stuff, or just block her. So that way she is still your friend.
I think we are all just at the end of our ropes.. I get irritated very easily.. sometimes over silly stuff.
"Sometimes all you can do is not think. Not wonder. Not obsess. Not imagine.
Just Breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best."
Thank you Jaidynsmum for my beautiful siggy
HUGS.. I know. So many things frustrate me these days. It's because everything is so difficult to do. I have little ones and they are constantly putting things on the floor and it's just so hard to be bending down so many times in a day
I'm just now starting to get the prego rage...at nearly everything. I can't relate to your hubby issues (for now) as whenever mine senses my mood is off, he jumps in and deals with everything. Bending over to get anything is hard, and I'm never curteous enough to myself to put my towel anywhere logical, but DH yells at me when my shower turns off and asks if I need help getting out or getting my towel. It's so sweet, but it still manages to irritate me sometimes because I feel unable to do anything for myself. It's impossible to please me.
I have a VERY short fuse these days, so don't feel bad about the prego hormones- you aren't alone. Luckily DH has been super helpful and considerate for the most part so when he has done something dumb, I've managed to bite my tongue. LOL I think he's afraid to set me off.
Location: Where the grass grows and there's lots of trees
I told my hubby again today about my feelings about his rejection of me.. meaning he doesn't want to have sex with me right now... which is unlike him. He tried to reassure me that it's because I complain that it doesn't feel good (true) and the pregnant belly is a turn off. Recently my issue with him is him watching porn.. either insisting we do it together, or doing it by himself when I'm not here. I try to explain to him that its cheating.. and he doesn't agree. So I told him that if I discover that he does it again (he has promised not to) then I will buy a play girl magazine and a vibrator... he laughed.. he found that funny lol. But then I got sex shortly afterwards... yes... I'll admit, sex isn't the most comfortable thing right now.. but its the principle.. I still want him to want it with me.. I get insecure when he acts disinterested.