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January 5th, 2014, 08:38 PM
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Of course I expected our relationship to take a change. I didn't expect when I walked into the room after a.shower feeling the most confident I've felt in over a year that he would just look at me deadpan. Wow. I've let a lot of things go and made excuses for it being lack of sleep and new parents I even let go that he was hiding smoking and lying to my face about it. I didn't think it was going to be this difficult or that i was going to be this sensitive. I worry I'm not tje same person i was to him. I'm tired of not being able to say anything ab being exhausted without being one upped. I'm so afraid we aren't going to make it. There are times that pass where we just look at each other expressionless. And of course I cant help that nagging feeling he's seeing someo.e else. We've talked about all of these things and i still feel like something is missing. I can't help but think that he doesn't feel the same and i wont get that person back.
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January 11th, 2014, 10:33 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that
I guess the only way to know is to speak with him
Hopefully he is honest with you
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January 27th, 2014, 06:18 PM
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You CAN make it! The first year or so can be so hard, in so many ways. Just push through this time, forgive, and make sure to communicate. Don't be tempted to one up back. Show him respect, even if you feel lack of love or affection. Relationships go through phases. This is a tough one. We are experiencing one ourselves. Our closeness has suffered. There has been hardly time (or desire on my part) to give myself completely to my marital relationship. We already know we need to spend more time together. Whatever you do, just love your man, show him respect and love in HIS love language. That is the best you can do. You can't change him, just yourself. (and often that brings about wonderful change in your spouse!!) Remember, you can do it, and happiness can return to your relationship! It just takes time, and lots of patience and love!
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