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February 11th, 2013, 07:39 AM
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Hey ladies! So I've been stalking your DDC for a while now, but only very rarely post anything. I'm Eva and I'm 5w1d pregnant. We had a blighted ovum in August and had a d&c at 7 weeks. Then I got pg again, but in December found out that there was no longer a heartbeat, at 9 weeks (it had a heartbeat just 3 days earlier!). So I had another d&c performed then. So basically, I'm pretty pessimistic, even though there's not really a reason to be. I had the recurrent m/c testing done, and everything came back normal. But it seems like things always SEEM fine until I go in for my first u/s, and then it's always bad news. So this time, I'm really not trying to get my hopes up, and I'm actually DREADING my first u/s in about 2 weeks. But if things go well then, then I'll *officially* join you guys.

We had to do IUI to get pg, and I'm super nervous this time because we triggered ovulation with THREE mature follicles. For reference, the last 2 times I got pg (that ended in m/c), I only had ONE mature follicle, and got pg both times. So I'm terrified of triplets. Even twins scares the crap out of me. We have 2 kids already (ages 5 and 2), and only wanted one more to complete our family... so I go back and forth between being terrified that when we have our u/s, we won't see ANY viable babies, and being terrified that when we have our u/s, we'll see THREE viable babies! Talk about a mix of emotions! My first hcg at 12 dpo was 102, and then on 14 dpo it was 462... which seems in the range for twins or triplets according to betabase.info. Sigh.

So yeah, basically I've been on pins and needles the last 2 weeks, and will continue to be a nervous wreck for another few weeks until we have (hopefully) reassuring news. Until then, I hope you guys don't mind if I just continue to stalk your DDC and maybe once in a while post a response to something. I just don't want to get too invested in something that might go away soon... (sorry for the pessimism!).
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February 11th, 2013, 07:49 AM
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Welcome!

I know how you feel, I've been through 2 losses very recently so this is my 3rd ddc in less then a year! But I'm trying VERY hard to just not worry and let whatever is going to happen to happen! Hoping this is your rainbow baby!
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February 11th, 2013, 08:04 AM
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Welcome! Totally understandable after your losses. Hoping you get that good news in weeks!
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February 11th, 2013, 08:09 AM
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Really hoping you get to *officially* join!! Good luck!
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February 11th, 2013, 08:51 AM
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Hope you get great news in two weeks!
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February 11th, 2013, 09:58 AM
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Welcome! I hope you will officially be joining us soon!
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February 11th, 2013, 01:03 PM
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Welcome and H&h 9mo
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February 11th, 2013, 01:07 PM
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Congrats! Hope to see you joining us soon
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February 11th, 2013, 01:10 PM
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I really hope you get some good news in a few weeks!!! Welcome
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February 11th, 2013, 01:14 PM
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Welcome and congrats and I look forward to very good news in a couple of weeks so you can officially join us!
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February 12th, 2013, 08:49 AM
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welcome and congrats!!!! Looking to forward to hearing the outcome!
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February 12th, 2013, 08:54 AM
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Welcome and stalk away!
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