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February 12th, 2013, 12:31 PM
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with Dh being stuck in the past and throwing my mistakes in my face im gonna have high blood pressure through out my pregnancy because he wont stop.

Im at the point where im tired of it. my stress level right now is high because he got mad at me for pushing his hand away from my butt last night....im sorry i dont want my butt messed with when im trying to solve a problem with the litter maid cat box. now he even more pissed because im watching my sisters 2 kids for an hour until she gets off work.

Yes he is pissed at me for pushing his hand aside and telling him stop, so now im reliving my dam past from 3 years ago. He also moody because he hasnt gotten laid in days....well if he would stop getting all mad at me for no reason maybe he would get laid. Maybe if he would respect the fact im not feeling well and love on me instead of grab at my extreamly painfully sore nipples id be fine.

I had to tell him over and over to leave my nipples alone because they are so sore that they hurt with any touch....he cares more about getn his dam stick messed with than my health. if i end up having a MC because of all this then im done with him.

He can try to find a woman to deal with him which during the 3 years we were split up i had like what 4 short term BFs and he had over 10 gfs and one he knocked up, he was dating 6 girls at once weeks before we got back together.....so tell me who matured, who grew the hell up?

I let the past go adn forgave him, but yet he is enjoying the fact of making my life hell....i swear if i do MC i wil never love him again for as long as i live.
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February 12th, 2013, 12:56 PM
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Oh sweetie, that sounds like a huge amount of stress. I am sorry you are having to deal with his immaturity while being in early pregnancy. It sounds like he needs to rearrange his priorities and realize that having a healthy child takes absolute first priority over everything else, and the only way to do that is to have a healthy mama.

Is there any way you can get away for a couple of days?
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February 12th, 2013, 01:06 PM
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I'm sorry hun men can be very insensitive I hope he comes around and stats treating you better ((HUGS))
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February 12th, 2013, 01:07 PM
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Sometimes guys just don't understand.. not everybody is horny all the time, especially pregnant! I think you should get away for a night and have some girl time with some friends and let things simmer down. Sorry you are going through that!
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February 12th, 2013, 01:09 PM
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if i get away for a few days then he will start saying who did you go meet, who did you screw....im at the point i wish i could win the lottery and move far from this place and never let him know where i live.

he already told me if i dont wanna deal with it then i can leave. I think he is bipolar major and needs help but he wont. he is happy with being his miserable self and being so mean. I already said i would raise my son to be better than his father.

to respect women and never lay a hand on them regardless of what they do.

i dont have any friends =( family really cant help either and my parents fight enough to the point it stresses me out. i dreamed of a stress free pregnancy unlike my last 2. Guess it wont happen. Why do i have to be in a crappy town with crappy men. My dh is just like his dad a jerk and like my step dad a perverted ***.

i changed why cant he
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February 12th, 2013, 01:21 PM
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That sucks. I sometimes go through similar stuff with my SO. He brings up my ex and my friendship with him too much, or "jokes" about it in ways that annoy the crap out of me. I don't really hold a grudge, but if the "joking" goes on for a long time, I may wanna kick him in his forehead (kidding - he's like a foot taller, no way I'd reach). He's incredibly sweet most of the time, but yeah.

Sounds like your DH has some insecurities. And no woman wants to feel like they *have* to have sex, pregnant or not. Especially pregnant as I'm discovering.

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