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  #1  
March 16th, 2013, 12:32 PM
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Once again, I don't have the energy to write out everything.
It's my 35th Birthday today. I should be 12 weeks pregnant today. Instead, I had a D&C done this morning and now I am officially not pregnant anymore. My heart is just shattered Physically I am ok. Since Thursday I have just wanted to get the D&C over and done with and now that it's done, the reality has hit me hard. There will be no 'second chance' for me, no 'ttc' road to go down. This was my 'unplanned' miracle. My chance to have my third baby. Now that's all gone.

The one positive I can report is that, thankfully it was not a molar pregnancy! I was so relieved to finally hear those words from my OBGYN. He said 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage and I just happen to fall into that category, unfortunately He referred to it as an incomplete miscarriage. They checked my beta levels and he said if they were over 1000 he would have to do a D&C, no questions asked. Well, mine were 7000 Therefore the need for the D&C.

It's of course going to take me some time to come to terms with everything that has happened in the last 2 days. It's also going to take a while to get used to not spending my days on JM, dreaming about my baby and pregnancy. I just know that I am going to miss you all. You have all become a part of my life.

We'll be flying back home tomorrow. I'll check in with you all sometime soon!
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March 16th, 2013, 12:42 PM
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So, so sorry hun. Keeping you in my T&Ps.
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March 16th, 2013, 01:15 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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March 16th, 2013, 01:47 PM
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I'm relieved it wasn't a molar too! Scary stuff! Remember its okay to be angry and any other emotion you might have. And a month from now if you still feel bad it's normal. Don't let anyone tell you to get over it. I'm so sorry this happened to you
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March 16th, 2013, 01:53 PM
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So sorry!!! Glad it wasn't molar though!
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March 16th, 2013, 01:56 PM
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I'm so sorry, I've been following your story and it's just awful. Must be so hard for you. I hope that you are able to have the space and time you need to heal. xx
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March 16th, 2013, 02:35 PM
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I'm so sorry hope you're able to take some time when you get home to heal. Please keep in touch, it has been nice getting to know you on JM.
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March 16th, 2013, 03:28 PM
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Glad it wasn't a molar, but I'm really sorry you had to go through this.
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March 16th, 2013, 03:40 PM
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I still can't find the words honey. Wish I could say something great. I'm just so sorry. Please take care of yourself!
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March 16th, 2013, 04:26 PM
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I am so sorry
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March 16th, 2013, 05:09 PM
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I'm so sorry
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March 16th, 2013, 05:34 PM
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I'm sorry. Hugs!
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March 16th, 2013, 05:36 PM
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I'm so so sorry!!!!!
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March 16th, 2013, 05:38 PM
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I'm so sorry. Lots of healing vibes coming your way.
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March 16th, 2013, 05:50 PM
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Im so sorry
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March 16th, 2013, 06:13 PM
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How devastating for you, I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself, I will be praying for you
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March 16th, 2013, 06:15 PM
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Sending warm and gentle healing thoughts your way. I am so beyond sorry for all that you have been through. I can't imagine, and pray that no more of us walk the path that you are on right now. I am crying for your loss.
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March 16th, 2013, 07:20 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. I had similar thoughts with my surgery. I was glad to have it because I didn't feel like passing all of that on my own, didn't want the cramping.

I had a nosocomial infection with it, and I was hospitalized a day later. I wasn't allowed to eat, and all the commercials were for Subway or First Response. Really depressing time.
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March 16th, 2013, 07:51 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you take care and find peace soon.
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March 16th, 2013, 10:22 PM
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I'm sorry, and extra sorry it had to be on your birthday. I'm glad that things seem OK physically so you can better focus on yourself. Sending healing thoughts. Don't be a stranger.
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