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March 25th, 2013, 09:53 AM
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Sorry that it has been a long time sense I posted. Life has been crazy. I think the last post a wrote was I hit a pole with my van well I got a new one and that was a pain. I see the dr on the 1st and life around here has been well the worst. My husband is a over the road trucker and well we got pregnant a few months go by and well s#$%hits the fan this morning.
He was home for almost 2 weeks and I will never now why he choose to tell me but about 5 yrs ago he worked on the oil fields for about 2 months well he cheated on me had sex with a girl he meet there will she found us out and said that he might want to be tested for hiv.
Well I asked him if it really happened he said no. Well this morning he texted me saying that he lied it true he did have sex with here, So I asked for a separation and he said ok.
Im so pissed hurt and livid not just for me but our kids and our baby that now has to come into this mess I just want to scream and rant to everybody but I know that its not right.
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhh
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March 25th, 2013, 10:03 AM
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Oh wow thats a lot to handle!! I know things are so chaotic right now...but that incident happened a long time ago right? May be your husband is a changed man since then? Of course first things first...all of you should get tested for HIV. I hope you find some peace. So sorry you are going through this
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March 25th, 2013, 10:09 AM
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omg! I don't even know what to say!!! I am so sorry!
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March 25th, 2013, 10:12 AM
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That was one of the blood tests they did when I went in a couple weeks ago - you can get that checked. Best wishes to you!
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March 25th, 2013, 10:17 AM
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You will almost definitely get an HIV test when you get your blood drawn at the first appointment, but I can't imagine waiting for the results if you fear a small chance it might be positive. I'm so sorry your husband did that, and also that you had to find out now if things are going well between you and you are expecting a new baby. That is awful.
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March 25th, 2013, 10:30 AM
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I am so sorry. Do you think he wants to separate or just doesn't want to arrgue with you? I hope the blood test comes back negative, good luck!
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March 25th, 2013, 10:46 AM
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I'm so sorry ((hugs))
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March 25th, 2013, 10:52 AM
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I'm so sorry! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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March 25th, 2013, 10:52 AM
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That is alot to handle at once. Praying that your test is negative and that you can work things out.
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March 25th, 2013, 11:10 AM
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Omg, I am so sorry to read this First of all, definitely get a HIV blood test!!! I don't even know what I would do in a situation like this, worrying about HIV, finding out my husband has cheated and on top of that being pregnant as well. My heart just goes out to you, it truly does!!! I'm so sorry. Noone deserves this kind of pain <HUGS>
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March 25th, 2013, 11:53 AM
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Oh no. Im so sorry.
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March 25th, 2013, 11:56 AM
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That is awful, so sorry you are going through this!
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March 25th, 2013, 12:25 PM
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Omg I am so sorry for you and the kids hugs
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March 25th, 2013, 01:10 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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March 25th, 2013, 02:09 PM
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He has been tested for his job an so have I with all my pregnancy I asked for the seperation. I hate the fact of him cheating and I thought things have been good for a long time I will never no why I choose to tell me now
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March 25th, 2013, 03:28 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this
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March 25th, 2013, 04:20 PM
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He has been tested for his job an so have I with all my pregnancy I asked for the seperation. I hate the fact of him cheating and I thought things have been good for a long time I will never no why I choose to tell me now
Again, so sorry to hear this. What a jerk, to put it mildly. My ex was a big cheater/womanizer so I know the general rage you must be going through, not to mention sadness. Hang in there, of course you just got hit with all this, but it will get bbetter.
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March 25th, 2013, 04:32 PM
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What a mess. It's a terrible situation but to tell you this now, being pregnant?
I will hold my tongue!
Hang in there. Hugs!
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March 25th, 2013, 06:34 PM
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thanks guys I have cried and my kids have looked at me like I have lost it. I hope that I can get through this for them and me for the baby that now has to be born into this mess
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