Log In Sign Up

Anyone else have siblings having a tough time with new baby coming?


Forum: October 2013 Playroom

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To October 2013 Playroom LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
June 13th, 2013, 06:16 AM
BostonmamaSue12's Avatar Veteran
Join Date: Nov 2012
Posts: 222
I have a 6 year old who is my easier child and very excited. My 9 year old is strong willed and is not happy. Every time we argue, she says she is grouchy because of the new baby coming - wishes he wasn't and is mad at us for having him. I get upset and tell her that is mean and I don't want to hear it again. We have her seeing a psychologist to prepare for his arrival and because she is honestly a tough kid and we need help. She doesn't share well with others and always arguing with us. She is just super tough. How are you dealing with it all?

The two girls are going to share a room soon and we are trying to make it fun for them - new bed, new décor, etc but nothing is working. She is soo miserable and the poor 6 year old gets the brunt of it.

I feel like every day is a struggle.
__________________
Sue from Boston
Mommy to Holly (9) and Samantha (6)

Expecting #3 on September 30th! ITS A BOY!!



Reply With Quote
  #2  
June 13th, 2013, 06:31 AM
jamieshalon2's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Virginia
Posts: 3,143
Send a message via Yahoo to jamieshalon2 Send a message via Skype™ to jamieshalon2
Awe, I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I have no advice to help out. My kids are probably more excited than I am, lol.
They are counting down the days until she is born.
Is it a new baby in general, or is it because this new baby is boy that she is upset?
__________________

Jamie age 37-Single mommy and loving life
Tristen James born 10-28-00
Logan Boyce born 1-19-04
Brayden Monroe born 8/2/07
Sophia Elizabeth born 10-4-2103
Reply With Quote
  #3  
June 13th, 2013, 06:46 AM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 5,298
When we had #3 my dd had a tough time. She wanted a sister and was worried he wouldn't like her and like oldest brother more. (Turned out to be true).

She cut off all her hair twice

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. It's heartbreaking as a mom to go through this because you want all your kids to love each other and feel the same joy we feel.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
June 13th, 2013, 11:40 AM
Lemon's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Florida
Posts: 3,088
I'm sorry. Maybe other BTDT moms will have good advice!

So far both kids are excited. I worry about both kids after he is born, but will try my best to make everyone feel special!
__________________
angela - mom to joey (8) and emma (4) and william jude (10/16/13)
Reply With Quote
  #5  
June 13th, 2013, 12:19 PM
WorkerBeeMama's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Southern California
Posts: 4,486
I'm in the same boat minus the not wanting the baby to come part.

It is hard and tiring at times.

She is super sweet but just argues and has an attitude. 8 was the worst for her and I remember I used to always say I hate eight, lol.

She is 11 now and is better, but we still have our issues. My lack of discipline had not helped any and I have had to really put my foot down in the past month.

Oy, parenting can have it's not so fun moments.
__________________


Mindy & Josh
Mama to 3 beautiful girls!
DD - Maya (11), DD - Sophia (7)
, & DD - Jane (0)

11/04 09/12 12/12
Reply With Quote
  #6  
June 13th, 2013, 05:14 PM
Veteran
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: southern california
Posts: 300
awww
my son was super excited about a new baby before we found out the gender. he really, really wanted a brother. he (we) bought a mini baseball and bat, baseball outfits and a baseball blanket for "him". but when i told him she's a girl he got pretty upset. he kept saying that maybe they were wrong and maybe it could still be a boy. i felt so bad for him.

i told him that he could still teach his new little sister all about baseball. and even though she is a girl she'll still be following him around and looking up to him. my niece is about 4 years younger than my son and she constantly follows him around and wants to be just like him. she begged her parents to let her play softball just because her cousin was playing baseball. it was so cute that evening after i told everyone "it's a girl" my niece told my son she would trade him her 1 year old brother for his new baby sister.

my son's solution... i could just have another baby right after this one. haha kids
__________________
mom to an awesome 13 yr old
and my pretty valentina (16 weeks early)

#3 edd 08/06/2015
Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 07:25 PM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0