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August 8th, 2014, 05:25 PM
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It's just the worst feeling in the world. Pretty much the whole story is over on the Mar 15 DDC. I can't really bring myself to hash it out again; sorry.

The upside, and I'm scared to say this, is we saw a (slow) heartbeat and after yesterday's blood clot I'm back to bleeding so little I don't even need a pad or anything.

...So I guess we'll see, huh? :/

(3rd HCG test this weekend, follow up with OB on Weds, for those who are curious what my timeline is. I'm sleeping on a pad at night because I'm more or less expecting that I could start bleeding a lot any time and I don't want to ruin the bed. Ugh. I wish I had never noticed the blood. I wouldn't have worried about/tested for anything until my first standard OB appt after 8 weeks or so. Now time is craaaawling and I'm just trying to enjoy being pregnant for however much time remains of it.)
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August 8th, 2014, 05:32 PM
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I haven't checked out the other board, but will. So sorry you're going through this. Please kup.
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August 8th, 2014, 06:12 PM
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I hope at the least you get answers soon, and I really hope that everything turns out OK. (hugs)
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August 8th, 2014, 08:36 PM
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Sorry your going through this, I know how tough it is!! Such an up and down heartbreaking thing to go through!! (Been through 2 m/c myself) HUGS!! Praying real hard for your baby bean!!
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August 8th, 2014, 09:02 PM
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Thanks ladies. <3 I posted to an anonymous forum and got the advice back that I need to not stress and just enjoy being pregnant. Whatever is going to happen I can't change, but right now I'm pregnant. I can be sad later if there's a reason to be, but taking on future worries prematurely makes zero sense.

So that's what I'm trying to do. Incidentally, today was much better than the previous ... what? 4 days? Time has slowed to a crawl and it feels like Monday was like a month ago. Sheesh.

I'm looking forward to this stress being over - however the situation ultimately resolves itself.
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August 9th, 2014, 06:51 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear, being in limbo is surely excruciating. I can understand just wanting an answer, whatever the answer may be. Praying for the best, and hoping that you are able to remain positive throughout this trying time.
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August 9th, 2014, 08:18 AM
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This sucks. I never know what to say in these situations I hope everything is clearer soon. Keep us posted and know we are here!
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August 9th, 2014, 12:48 PM
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This sucks. I never know what to say in these situations I hope everything is clearer soon. Keep us posted and know we are here!
It's easier to be supportive in reality, you don't have to talk, just be there. =( It's hard to find the words in virtual reality.


I'm praying for your bean! Hopefully you O'd late and that explains measurements. Maybe the clot was something working itself out. Fingers crossed that your next numbers go up. *hugs*
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August 9th, 2014, 05:35 PM
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Praying you get good news.
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August 9th, 2014, 08:50 PM
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I was looking around at the other forums from 2013 and most are deader than a doornail. I have to say I feel fortunate that I was a part of this DDC, which almost a year later is still made up of some pretty fabulous ladies.
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August 10th, 2014, 08:12 AM
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I agree!!
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August 11th, 2014, 09:11 AM
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I hope that everything looks up for you. This is a very stressful time. I have been through it before. I send you lots of virtual hugs and support when ever you need it.
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August 11th, 2014, 01:19 PM
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Well, it's over. It has to be. My hcg on Monday last week was 3311. Then 3314 on Wednesday. Now it's 2521.

My body is letting go, albeit very slowly. It's over. This feeling is utterly crushing. I might not be around for a while guys. Thanks for all the support and everything. <3
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August 11th, 2014, 02:23 PM
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=( I'm so sorry! I had hoped it was just a scare. *hugs* If you plan to try right away, I hope you get your rainbow baby quickly!
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August 11th, 2014, 04:15 PM
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We'll probably go back to NTNP. It's not the time for us to anguish about it, but if a pregnancy comes along, we'll take it. You know?

Confirming what we already know by U/S on Weds. Part of me has fingers crossed for a strong heartbeat that day. Another part just hopes I'll go ahead and freaking miscarry already so I can get on with my life. </3
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August 11th, 2014, 05:11 PM
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Always hope ♥ but I understand wanting to be done. I had a slow one once. I demanded an u/s when my uterus was measuring small, and I knew immediately when the sacs came on screen. I still hoped. =) Maybe my dates were off, maybe the babies were hiding, maybe just one of the babies were hiding. I never spotted or anything(had to get surgery) so I was shocked and so disappointed, but was I ever so fertile after. Got pregnant immediately, though I was trying. It's not something I'd wish on anyone.

Here's hoping maybe the dip in numbers was an undiscovered twin or something random. I really want you to see a thriving bean there in a couple days. If not I hope everything can happen quickly and naturally for you because surgery sucks.
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August 11th, 2014, 07:35 PM
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Thinking of you!! HUGS!
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August 11th, 2014, 11:56 PM
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Lots of prayers sent!!!
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August 12th, 2014, 11:02 AM
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Oh man, hoped it was just a scare too.
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August 12th, 2014, 01:24 PM
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I'm sorry. I hope you can at least start healing physically soon, that it isn't any more drawn out for you. ((hugs))
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