[babypaid]

about your life, what would it be??


I think that I would have listen to my mother more often than trying to discover things out for myself. She was right anyways.

I would have listened to my mother more too!

[Lisadear]

I'd probably change that I haven't lived in this house for the past 11 years lol

its a pretty long story to go into right now but basically I'm a single parent and until now been juggling the pennies to make ends meet which is why I've raised the kids so far in my mom's house

However, my mom's pretty much an abusive person ... was both physically, verbally and mentally abusive with me when she raised me.

She's obviously not physically abusive with my kids cause I'd sooooooooo jump all over her if she even dared to try that ... but I really can't shut up her mouth from being verbally abusive towards me and the kids ...

I am one thing but I'm at the limit to where the kids are being affected.

So ... now I'm in the process of doing what I should have done a longgggggggg time ago ... I'm looking for my own place since I can now afford it.

So far the kids are fine and well adjusted but only cause I use every piece of my strength and energy to shield and protect them and I reallly don't see why I have to do that anymore.

time to move on.

xxx Lisa xxx

[Kellee77]

idont think I would change anything. everything happens for a reason and every mistake I have made in life I have learned from

[TT Mom]

I would not change anything. I luv my life, family, kids, work, etc - its all good with God in my life and I am so happy to be so blessed.

[lilbilal03]

I would have had the willpower to make better choices in the past. But I can't change a thing so I guess u just gotta learn to live life each day by doing the best u can.

[proudjmmom]

I have to agree with Kellee77! I think that everything happens in life for a reason, and the mistakes we make are a way for us to learn. I don't think i would change anything.

[taimas mama]

I agree that things happen for a reason and I have definitely learned from my mistakes. BUT...just for the heck of it I would change allowing my in-laws to move us into this smaller house closer to them (i.e.-I wouldn't have allowed it) and I wouldn't have allowed my ex-co-workers to infringe on my emotional state upon returning to work from maternity leave-knowing I didn't want to ever leave my child- They abused the situation, thus I am not working in my career as a school counselor anymore-I am damaged and have moved on. But they all deserve the old prepreg mean me and a good kick in the booty.

[bellydancerbelly]

i wouldnt change anythin in my past but i woud like to improve many thing like be more finacially stable,finish school,be the best mommy to my unborn child,change my attitude towards my dad (he was never there for me as a child),be more active (i been so lazy since ive been prego lol)

[Chunky Monkey]

In no way do I regret my kids but I feel I could have waited till I was a little older to give them a better chance at life. But they are here and I love all of them more than anything!
I am just going to do my best to see that my daughter waits to have children because I would like her to have a better start to an adult life than I did.