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May 13th, 2013, 01:18 PM
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I think i have said or done something to turn alot of people away from me in this DDC. Im generally a well liked person and overall a happy person who loves having lots of friends and ladies to speak with. I just notice a bit of stuff here, and unfortunately its leaving me not sure if i should stay and tbo, i have never felt unwelcome in JM before

Maybe its just pregnant hormones, but i hate to think that i have made any enemys at all specially if we are together all of us for the long run with our pregnancies..

Im really trying to stay a nice active member along with everyone else, and try to read everyones posts and reply as much as I can... but im getting to the point where im scared to say some things or reply to certain things...
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May 13th, 2013, 01:36 PM
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I'm not sure what happened, But please feel free to PM me! I've been in a ddc where Indian feel welcomed as it was not fun! I try to include and respond To everyone, but this weekend was kind of crazy for me so I was clicking here and there and not going to every single post like normal. Please stick around, I missed when you were gone for a few weeks.
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May 13th, 2013, 01:43 PM
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I'm sorry you are feeling this way Chelsea. I haven't noticed anything but I'm kind of out of the loop a bit.
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May 13th, 2013, 01:44 PM
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I'm so sorry you feel like this! I haven't noticed it and have never seen a post by you that felt offensive! I'm totally cool with you and think you bring a lot to the group. I'm glad you are back from your move.
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May 13th, 2013, 01:55 PM
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I'm not a very active member, but I think your a great member and person! Not sure what happened to make you feel this way, but your cool in my book!
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May 13th, 2013, 02:03 PM
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I'm sometimes not in the mood to post at all, and I don't always post to everyone's threads (it's kind of when the mood strikes kind of thing), and other people may be this way too. Not sure what made you think you're disliked, but not everyone posts to my threads either.

I don't know why, but sometimes you can easily feel alienated on a forum when that's not the case at all. When I feel this way on any forum (or FB for that matter where no one replies to my posts sometimes - lol), I try to remind myself not to take it personally because in most cases either people don't see something or they just don't feel like replying.
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May 13th, 2013, 02:17 PM
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I'll be honest, I am not that active either. I'm always extremely tired. It didn't go away with the second trimester which is a bummer. But I always like hearing from you. You were one of the first of this DDC along with me and a few others and I have never had a problem with you. I sometimes feel the same way here but I think for me especially its just a hormonal thing...lol. I love all the girls here and I'm always happy to see what everyone posts! Please don't go!
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May 13th, 2013, 02:20 PM
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Not sure what's going on, but don't go!
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May 13th, 2013, 02:23 PM
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I'm pretty oblivious so I haven't noticed anything but I hope there hasn't been anything I've done to make you feel this way! I know there have been times when I've gotten on JM thinking I would have a lot of time and then something happens in real life and I've only been able to respond to two posts! Maybe that looks a little funny but there's definitely no ill will behind it! I think we have a great group of ladies in our DDC!
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May 13th, 2013, 02:27 PM
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Hmm, I never noticed any issues! I know for me personally that I only reply to those threads I feel like I have something to add to or an opinion on. Not sure if the reply thing was the issue, but I never was offended by anything you posted! Sounds like it was a misunderstanding! Definitely stay!
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May 13th, 2013, 02:34 PM
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Aww, I'm sorry you feel hurt! I know I don't reply to very many posts, even though I read just about all of them. I just don't usually have anything useful to add to what was already said. I'm pretty quiet IRL too. It's also hard when we're all hormonal and things in a post can be so easily misread, especially since that's the only way we know each other. I hope you, and everyone else as well, will stay and chat. I love to see what everyone has to say.
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May 13th, 2013, 02:47 PM
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I haven't seen anything but I hope you begin to feel welcome and stick around.<3
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May 13th, 2013, 02:51 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way Chelsea! With my 2nd son, I joined that group late and so I never quite felt a part of that group, so I understand the feeling of alienation, but am sure sorry you feel that way with us! I think we have a great thing going and I hope you'll stay!
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May 13th, 2013, 03:02 PM
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I'm sorry you're feeling this way too. I'm with the other ladies where sometimes I have time to post and reply, and sometimes I don't. <3 ((hugs)) I don't want anyone feeling this way, and I hope you decide to stay!!
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May 13th, 2013, 03:10 PM
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I'm sorry you are feeling like that Chelsea please don't go! You are an important part of this forum and you always have great things to add!!!!
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May 13th, 2013, 03:10 PM
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I thought it was just me not being around for a couple of days because of non-existent energy levels... but after reading everyone's posts I know I'm not the only one confused here! You were here from the very beginning and I can't think of one thing that offended me - on the contrary!


Not everyone here (including me) responds to all (or even many) of the posts. Especially if we don't have much useful stuff to add. I do try to read through as much as I have time/energy for and you are a very welcome member here! :hugs:
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May 13th, 2013, 04:47 PM
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I'm not super active but I think you're pretty cool
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May 13th, 2013, 04:54 PM
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I haven't noticed anything, but I like you! Don't go!
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May 13th, 2013, 06:02 PM
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I agree with the other ladies...I may not post a ton, or only here and there because Wyatt draws me away or I sometimes just don't have the energy to type but I try to at least read stuff and I think you are a great asset to the group!


I hope you chose to stick around.
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May 13th, 2013, 06:10 PM
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Why do you feel so unwelcome here? I can't think of anything you've said that would make anyone not like you, especially not something that would make enemies! I may have missed something though, I don't get around to every post...
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