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October 4th, 2013, 01:12 AM
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i was just thinking.. were any of your babies unplanned (obviously im not going to judge, my baby wasnt exactly planned either)?
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October 4th, 2013, 04:22 AM
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Last one and this one was planned.
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October 4th, 2013, 04:51 AM
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after almost 5 years of trying and then giving up to get our miracle cant say exactly planned as we had given up hope but definitely wanted
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October 4th, 2013, 05:15 AM
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Our first baby was the only one who wasn't technically "planned." She was very much wanted, just the timing surprised us as we were still newlyweds! I planned my son and this baby down to the month I wanted them to be born!
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October 4th, 2013, 05:17 AM
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We were NTNP with both (too much stress for me to actively TTC), but they were both very much wanted. We used prevention in the gap between them when we did not want another at that time (and before our first).
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October 4th, 2013, 05:24 AM
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both of mine were planned
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October 4th, 2013, 05:32 AM
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This one was planned hubby made me wait four years but he finally budged and said ok it's baby time
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October 4th, 2013, 05:42 AM
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I think out of all my pregnancy's (loss's included), I had maybe 6 that were not planned. I've been pregnant 14 times. These last two were not planned, I was waiting for insurance to kick in with this one for my tubes to be tied and my 7th was the failure of my IUD falling out and waiting the 30 days to get Ensure done......this is why I'm not leaving the hospital this time without my tubes tied!
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October 4th, 2013, 05:48 AM
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Caitlin was an oopse, obviously since I was 16 when I got pregnant, Parker was planned but my periods were irregular and that month it just happened to be on a 28 day cycle but I didn't have a clue, so we were pregnant before we were trying, I kept getting positive opks and that's how I found out I was pregnant. Finally took a test Christmas Day and was shocked! Jackson I had quit taking bc because it made me crazy and DH forgot? I think he's a miracle because we DTD on a Thursday and I didn't get a positive test until 16 days later and it was so faint I didn't know if
It was real, I felt funny that's why I kept testing. All dates conclude that the spermies would have lasted from Thursday to Monday. And that month would have been a 28 day cycle too, which is strange cause I was never 28 days. Weston not sure but he wasn't planned lol this baby wasn't planned but my periods were really out of wack, I was only getting on every 4 months and it just happened. But it's not like we were doing anything to prevent so while not "planned" we weren't shocked.
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October 4th, 2013, 06:05 AM
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All 3 of mine were planned, the only unplanned was the months we got pregnant.
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October 4th, 2013, 06:30 AM
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My first was completely unplanned. I was 18 and had just graduated high school a few months before. Her dad had just graduated military high school and was getting ready to go off to boot camp. I literally got pregnant on one of his breaks. I had always had irregular periods and was told I could never get pregnant. If I could do it all over again I would have totally waited to have her but wouldn't change having her for anything in the world. This baby my husband and I tried for. I had tried with my daughters father, my x husband and my husband now for a total of 11 years for another child. After 2 years of trying and finally adding Clomid we were able to conceive Levi!
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October 4th, 2013, 06:38 AM
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All of mine and took some work! 4/5 months for #1 (don't remember exactly) 9 months for #2, 4 months for #3, and then 9 months for this one. Although we were trying for this one, we were moving right around the time we conceived and I honestly wasn't tracking days or anything and DTD was the farthest thing from my mind, so was very surprised we got pregnant that month!

I'm sure part of the reason it takes us longer is that we just DTD and watch the calendar, I don't use OPKs or do anything special or anything.

Even though it was frustrating, especially with #2 and #4 taking awhile, I know they were meant to come when they did/will! THings have a funny way of working out sometimes!
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October 4th, 2013, 06:38 AM
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We had planned to have a baby in the next couple of years, but it happened the first month we left caution to the wind. I am pretty sure DF was trying though. I was pregnant after the first month we didn't avoid around O.
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October 4th, 2013, 06:41 AM
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My ods was not planned, I was 23 and thought I was in love and didn't take the proper precautions. My DD was planned after my husband and I got married. However, this one was not planned at all. We were having problems and I was honestly on my way out the door and divorce was on the horizon. I had contacted a lawyer and everything. But one last time, I decided to be nice and this is what happens. I do believe it was God's way of telling me to sit down somewhere lol! My husband is a good man and I was at a point where I was being selfish and wanted what I wanted regardless of who it would have hurt. I'm glad it happened. Its further proof that everything happens for a reason.
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October 4th, 2013, 06:54 AM
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My 4 year old daughter was not planned. My now husband and i had been dating only 5 months, and I was switching birth control to get the IUD. In that two week window I got pregnant. I was not happy at first, he already has four children and we had no money. But we stuck it out and have been together 5.5 years now

We did try for this one, took us three months. But I am sure most assume she was an accident because "Who in their right mind would want that many kids?"
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October 4th, 2013, 07:23 AM
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Planned but not. We had planned to have another next year, I started the pill (we were using rhythm method before with no oopsies) and got pg when I started the placebo on the very first pack. With DD we were trying and also got pg immediately. Seriously, just looking at each other evidently gets us pregnant
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October 4th, 2013, 07:23 AM
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Well, I got off birth control for the sole purpose of getting pregnant...took about 4 months. I was starting to get worried (yeah, dumb), so I had ordered a bunch of ovulation and pregnancy test strips right before I conceived, hah.
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October 4th, 2013, 07:29 AM
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Neither of my boys were planned miracles but loved and wanted as soon as that stick turned and this one... Was very planned! Shocked but planned loll DF said "let's start trying" I was blown away. But then he was so nervous because he kept worrying every time we dtd if it worked lol. I was nervous cause I wasn't sure how easy it would be with me overweight and 30 now... Two months into trying and bam!
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October 4th, 2013, 07:47 AM
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This baby was a surprise timing-wise. We were going to try in another 6 months to s year. I conceived super late in my cycle.
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October 4th, 2013, 07:53 AM
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my story is that we had broken up in december, so i had stopped taking my b/c (my logic: who would i be needing it with?) we got back together in january and decided to focus on us, and work out the things that had caused us to break up (this may sound dramatic for 17/18 yr olds to be doing, but we had been together for 2 years and were eachother's first serious relationship, if you know what i mean, and both wanted to keep it that way). when i kept missing periods, i thought my body was still getting itself on its own natural track, with the b/c hormones, and that's why i wasn't getting one -.- we thought "just once" without protection, nothing would happen to us.
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