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  #1  
July 26th, 2011, 08:50 AM
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WIthout going into a bunch of detail (that i just dont wanna share) as of yesterday, my marriage is literally in the toilet, and I'm having an extremely hard time dealing today.
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July 26th, 2011, 08:53 AM
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I can't imagine what you are going through. If you need anyone to talk to or vent to, feel free to PM me or FB me. I think that time will fix a lot of things that are going in. Everyone just needs to take a breather.
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July 26th, 2011, 08:55 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear that. Did this just change recently? (I'm sorry if you had posted about it previously and I missed it.)

I was in a similar spot in not being able to deal with marriage issues a few years ago, and had to see a therapist to help me get a handle on my emotions. If it gets down to it, please don't hesitate to get some help from people other than the girls here!

Big hugs!
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July 26th, 2011, 08:55 AM
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i feel like i have literally been emotionally raped by someone i thought i could trust.
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July 26th, 2011, 08:58 AM
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Family and marital issues are the hardest things to deal with, IMO. I don't have many words for you today except to say that I'm thinking about you guys and praying that everything calms down and works itself out very soon.
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July 26th, 2011, 08:59 AM
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So sorry hun Big,
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July 26th, 2011, 09:09 AM
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I am so sorry Brittany and I hope you and your dh can work things out, or barring that, I hope you can find some peace with whatever next steps you need to take. We are all here to listen anytime you need. Also, as a PP mentioned - couples therapy can be a lifesaver.
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July 26th, 2011, 09:23 AM
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I'm very sorry to hear this You will be in my thoughts.
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July 26th, 2011, 09:28 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that The end of a marriage is a devastating event no matter how it comes. Counseling, be it solo or joint is a wonderful thing. ((hugs))
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July 26th, 2011, 09:32 AM
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Im so sorry your going through this...I will keep you in my T&P.
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July 26th, 2011, 09:36 AM
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I am sorry to read this.

I really hope your DH gets his head out of his arse ASAP!
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July 26th, 2011, 09:47 AM
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I just wanted to say that I am thinking of you, too. It sounds like you are dealing with some really major stuff.

I can't imagine going through something so painful while trying to have a healthy pregnancy. Please take care of yourself. Wish I could offer more support, but know that I'm sending prayers your way...
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July 26th, 2011, 09:49 AM
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I am so, so sorry Hun
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July 26th, 2011, 10:10 AM
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Im so sorry to hear this. I hope that you feel better soon and that a breather will help out whatever situation you are finding yourselves in.
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July 26th, 2011, 11:17 AM
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July 26th, 2011, 11:43 AM
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*big hugs*
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July 26th, 2011, 11:48 AM
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I m so sorry to hear this, it seems a lot of ladies care about you on this forum, hopefully that will give you some strength..
You will be in my T&P hon..
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July 26th, 2011, 11:53 AM
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So sorry Brittany

Hope things get better!
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July 26th, 2011, 11:54 AM
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So sorry sweetie. I really hope that everything works out for the best. ((HUGS))
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July 26th, 2011, 12:51 PM
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I'm so sorry I hope yall can work it out.
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