Log In Sign Up

scheduled c/s ??


Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To 2012 Playroom LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
July 27th, 2011, 07:08 PM
ladybugwoods's Avatar Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: Allenhurst, GA
Posts: 978
So I'm having a scheduled c/s like some others. The problem I'm having is this..... Although this will be my third c/s , its the first one that I have to plan. I don't like the idea of picking my child's bday . We are supposed to talk about a date at the next appt. My DH and I have tried to talk about it but keep drawing blanks. Aren't bdays God's job??
Did anyone else have this problem ?? Do you have any advice?
__________________
*Elani Briez*
Reply With Quote
  #2  
July 27th, 2011, 07:19 PM
Regular
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: ontario
Posts: 72
I never got to ask for a certain date, my doctor induced me with my 1st daughter 2 wks over my due date and I had an emergency c-section. With my 2nd daughter my doc decided we would schedule a c/s at 38 wks and he just choose the day he would be on at the hospital.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
July 27th, 2011, 07:35 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Alabama
Posts: 1,062
I am not sure how to respond, other than you might want to check with your pastor if you are having religious reservations about possibly choosing the date of your child's birth. Some people might look at it as predetermined and whatever choice you make will be one that your god has already destined you to make, thus your god did make that decision.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
July 27th, 2011, 07:40 PM
LilBecca's Avatar Veteran
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Suburbs of Chicago
Posts: 443
Honestly... I'm not sure as to what advice I can give, other than just pray about it hun. Whatever is meant to happen will happen.
__________________
MC- Sweet Pea, EDD 10/10/09, left us at 6 weeks. MMC-Baby Peapod, EDD 02/24/2011, left us at 8 weeks.




Reply With Quote
  #5  
July 27th, 2011, 07:47 PM
swade66's Avatar My friends call me HIRB.
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Sewickley, PA
Posts: 39,230
I think it would be really strange to pick a birthday for my baby. My doctor schedules during the 39th week so it would limit me to 7 different days but I think it would still be hard.
__________________












***Don't expect me to lie to you just because you won't like the truth.***
Reply With Quote
  #6  
July 27th, 2011, 07:52 PM
vickwithpc's Avatar Super Mommy
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 651
mmm, Does having a date help you arrange/plan childcare for your older 2?

Is it normal to schedule them so far out? January seems like years away to me right now! That's the part that would make it hard for me, I'd want to know what my personal calendar looks like and knowing of other scheduling conflicts before scheduling DD.

As far as it being God's job....well, He *already* knows exactly what day it will be. IMHO it's irrelevant if you or a doctor pick a day, it's been predetermined.
(((hugs)))
__________________
Vickie

Aiden 1/9/12 !
DS 9/9/04
DD 2/3/01
Happily married for 16 years!

Reply With Quote
  #7  
July 27th, 2011, 07:53 PM
ladybugwoods's Avatar Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: Allenhurst, GA
Posts: 978
Hey Maggie. I like that idea we never thought about it like that. Ladies thank you all for your input. I'll continue to pray. But you all help.
__________________
*Elani Briez*
Reply With Quote
  #8  
July 27th, 2011, 11:33 PM
acupofjoe's Avatar Proud mama of three!
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: washington state.
Posts: 21,335
Send a message via Yahoo to acupofjoe
My dr does them at 39 weeks..
__________________
Nessa proud married working mother of three kids in Washington state. Trying to raise our family of five as LDS. Taking life one day at a time.
Jordan - 6 yr; Stan - 4 yr; & Tyler - 2 yr.
Reply With Quote
  #9  
July 27th, 2011, 11:41 PM
NutMeg76's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: United States
Posts: 20,687
You are scheduling because of the two previous c-sections, right? You don't *have* to schedule, even if you fully intend to have a surgical birth. There is the option of waiting for labor to begin and then going in for the surgery. I know many women that have no choice about the method of delivery, but still like to have their child choose the birth day.

There are many benefits to waiting for baby to decide when to be born for both the baby and yourself.
__________________

When they persisted in questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "Let the person among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her." John 8:7
Sail Back to Me
Reply With Quote
  #10  
July 28th, 2011, 06:11 AM
SPinkD's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Oklahoma
Posts: 18,590
Send a message via Yahoo to SPinkD
I never liked the idea of "picking" a birthday either. I had a planned c/s last time, but my daughter decided she didn't like that date and came earlier!! Will be having a planned again this time.
__________________
-Lindsay



Thank you RaspberryBeret for my gorgeous siggy!





Reply With Quote
  #11  
July 28th, 2011, 08:53 AM
Fluffy Baby's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: SW FL
Posts: 8,785
The way I see it, the day, no matter which day you pick, is already predetermined. My DS2 came 4 days before my scheduled c/s, so sometimes, they still get to pick the bday!
__________________
Leann <3 Hector
My trio: Alyssa 7, Tristan 4.75, Gavin 1.5

I am a mixture of all that and a bag of chips... IJS



Rest In Peace Jennifer <3



Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 06:47 PM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0