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August 4th, 2011, 01:55 AM
MomTo3LittleBoys's Avatar Love my house of boys!
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Do you have trust issues with anyone? Why? Who do you trust the most?
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August 4th, 2011, 02:08 AM
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I guess you could say so. My DH & my dad's side of the family are really the only people the I trust and am 100% comfortable with. I have to remain on eggshells around everyone else I know, but my family and I have all always been completely close and comfortable with one another. I typically avoid everyone on my mother's side. It's like they just look for things to start a big controversy over. You really have to watch what you say, or what they twist it into will spread like wildfire and you'll be defending yourself for ages. DH's family is the same way. It's infuriating. Even when you are standing completely still, you'll step on toes. So, I really don't trust or feel comfortable with any of them and will never, ever leave my baby with any of them at any point in time ever. Unfortunately, my paternal family is like almost 400 miles away, so that leaves us with NO sitters. =/ But I'd rather never have a sitter than to leave my baby with someone I can't trust (or stand).

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August 4th, 2011, 07:52 AM
n8tsmomma's Avatar Super Mommy
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I have issues with trust but most of the time its that I am too trusting and naive like with my sons father. Although when it comes to my son and who I leave hm with it takes a long time for me to trust someone. I need to find someone to watch him 2-4 days a week because daycare is way too expensive and I can't make the leap and hire someone so guess I will stay with 600 a month for two days of care a week. I mean it is nice to be able to drop him off at daycare if I have stuff to do or want to work overtime.

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August 4th, 2011, 07:59 AM
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Who I trust most : my DH. I used to have severe trust issues with him but I was young and trusted no one. Him and I have been through everything in the 13 years we've been together and it finally feels good to trust someone as much as I trust him.

Who I the least : my in-laws (dhs mother's side not his fathers side) and my youngest brother.
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August 4th, 2011, 08:39 AM
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I trust DH with my life, I do.

As for other people - let's just say in the 5 years I've been a mom, I've NEVER left my children with a sitter other than grandparents, ever.

I am SERIOUS trust issues with strangers and people around my children. I was 'taken advantage' of by a sitter AND someone I was sitting for and since then, I swore I'd never leave my kids, ever.

I realize I need to get over that but I can't.....
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August 4th, 2011, 08:58 AM
KeepingFaith's Avatar *~Mom to Faith Marie~*
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Do you have trust issues with anyone? Why? Who do you trust the most?

I would say the only person I would hesitate to tell personal details is my MIL, she has a big mouth and is quick to judge.

I trust my Mom more than anyone in this world, she is my best friend. (DH too,lol)


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August 4th, 2011, 09:18 AM
Jaz.MomTo1's Avatar hoping & praying
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I really don't trust anyone 100%! But I do trust DF and a few of my friends along with my mother..

The person I trust the least? One of my best friends of 10 years+ I still deal with her because we're good friends but as far as trusting her.. nah I just couldn't!
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August 4th, 2011, 10:12 AM
Iluvmybabies*'s Avatar Mama to 5 girls and 1 boy
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I trust only my DH, I do trust my MIL and my mom but differently, I raised my 3 siblings at a very young age because my mom was a drug addict(we JUST reconciled in Dec 2010 now that sh is clean)so I was the only one I could ever trust until I met DH at 16
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August 4th, 2011, 10:18 AM
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I have major trust issues because I am OCD and have major control issues so idk if those are actually trust issues. LOL. If it came down to it I would trust DH with my life it's the little things I'm leary of. Like sending him to the store for diapers and trusting that he will come home with the right stuff. LOL.

I do not trust DHs family. Especially MIL she is judgemental, negative and immature. I would never tell her my secrets. But I do trust her with DD (in short spurts).

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