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September 10th, 2011, 02:21 PM
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soooo i get home from the hospital, and want to show everyone the baby. she goes, "i don't wanna be a [d words for penis] but this is your fourth. i'm not excited." what. the. F could a person say to be more hurtful than that? i'm just in shock and crying and so upset. i won't ever bother to show her my pictures again. sorry, i have a big family, sorry you're in a bad mood. i don't recall ever being anything other than sunshine to you.
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September 10th, 2011, 02:30 PM
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Who is she? Whoever it is, you now know that she is not the one to talk baby with. I hope you have some more supportive people around you. It is exciting to see ultrasound pics of any child, no matter how many you have already. Maybe she's jealous of your pregnancy and the attention you will get throughout your pregnancy. Try to not let it bother you that much if you can. Know that we here are all excited to see your baby and hear all about it as much as you want to talk.
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September 10th, 2011, 02:47 PM
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Sorry to hear that hun. Don't let her get you down. Each baby is a miracle and a gift, whether it is the first or the tenth. Treasure it!
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September 10th, 2011, 02:55 PM
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I agree with Julie every baby is a gift don't let her make you feel down about it at all just ignore those comments and be happy for the blessing you are growing
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September 10th, 2011, 02:55 PM
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I'm sorry about this. I'm sure that person is already regretting her words. Hugs.
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September 10th, 2011, 03:01 PM
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i'm sorry, this was my SISTER.
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timothy michael, august 31, 2003, 12:02pm, 8 lb. 4 oz., 21"- 38 wks.
melissa may, april 7, 2006, 1:31pm, 7 lb. 10.5 oz., 19.5"- 36.5 wks
nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
damon michael, january 21, 2012, 1:31am, 6 lb. 14 oz., 20", 38 wks
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September 10th, 2011, 03:07 PM
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I'm sorry about this. I'm sure that person is already regretting her words. Hugs.
she doesn't regreat it at all. i know her. and why do people even bother to say stuff like "not to be rude but.. [insert rudest thing ever]". if you're gonna say it, don't try and sugarcoat it, becaue it IS rude.

god i came home, and no i have no supportive people in my life other than my friends who i rarely see... and i was in such a good mood. two seconds after she said that, my 19-month-old ran down into my parents room, and there's a curtain there, so i knocked, and asked if i could come grab nick, and he yelled, "yeah, go ahead. i'm asleep." i can't just walk into their room- i don't care if people see me naked, but he won't even let us in the room if he's in his underwear-- that's fine, his business, but i HAD to ask. so lovely that i get biched at back2back.
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msjaQ- 28, pantheist AP detroit mama to:
timothy michael, august 31, 2003, 12:02pm, 8 lb. 4 oz., 21"- 38 wks.
melissa may, april 7, 2006, 1:31pm, 7 lb. 10.5 oz., 19.5"- 36.5 wks
nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
damon michael, january 21, 2012, 1:31am, 6 lb. 14 oz., 20", 38 wks
rainbow baby left me at 6-1/2 weeks on 09.08.12~ never forgotten, sweet child


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September 10th, 2011, 03:51 PM
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That was a [d word for penis] move.

She sounds jealous to me.
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September 10th, 2011, 03:56 PM
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Too bad people can't just keep such thoughts to themselves. That was really rude and insensitive of her. Every baby is as special and exciting as those that came before, and those that will come after it.
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September 10th, 2011, 06:23 PM
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she doesn't regreat it at all. i know her. and why do people even bother to say stuff like "not to be rude but.. [insert rudest thing ever]". if you're gonna say it, don't try and sugarcoat it, becaue it IS rude.
I HATE that. If you have to preface something with "Not to be rude..." or "Not to be racist..." or "Not to be negative" then what you're about to say is DEFINITELY going to be whatever the last word of the phrase was and it doesn't excuse you from being responsible for your words or being a complete jerk. I'm sorry darlin. Sounds like a tough situation.
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