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September 19th, 2011, 12:37 AM
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For the past 3 months, DH and I have both been convinced that I would never be in the mood again - truly. Btw, I have the sneaking suspicion that men actually want to BD more when they are no longer being asked to. lol

Anyway, I may be the last to get my BD drive back b/c I am the least progressed singleton mom of the group, but in case anyone else out there still couldn't care less about it, watch out b/c yesterday it sounded like the least appealing thing in the world & today I honestly think I would have punched DH in the face had he not complied. haha

All that being said, I learned a very important lesson & that is to empty your bladder BEFORE you attack your SO/DH/DF haha. Maybe I'm the last to learn this as well, but I was one tickle away from literally peeing my bed. lol
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September 19th, 2011, 12:48 AM
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I feel like I'm never going to want it again either. Me and D had a long talk about it the other night. It really just comes and goes for me but I'm trying to be patient for D..poor guy lol.
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September 19th, 2011, 01:07 AM
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I was so far gone that I actually told mine on several occasions that he may want to prepare himself to have to wait until after the baby was born! lol. Then I'd get an urge here and there, but it was so fleeting that it would usually go before I even had time to alert him of it! haha

I know every woman/pregnancy is different, but hopefully you go back to normal (or more than normal!) soon!

They really are troopers, though! I'm like hormonally overwhelmed with affection for him. He actually caught me laying there just staring at him in awe! lol
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September 19th, 2011, 02:17 AM
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They really are troopers, though! I'm like hormonally overwhelmed with affection for him. He actually caught me laying there just staring at him in awe! lol
I've become the biggest baby as well. Or work schedules have been so opposite lately that we're only seeing each other a few hours a day and I miss sleeping next to him at night. I literally the past week have almost cried having to leave for work every night. Pathetic, I know!
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September 19th, 2011, 06:12 AM
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i try to give in atleat once a week haha poor guys
my sex drive is getting better but im still always so tired
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September 19th, 2011, 06:21 AM
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Mine was gone for years after maddox was born, until recently where I think DH is sick of it hehe. **** hormones! and definetly go pee before attacking lol
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September 19th, 2011, 06:34 AM
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My feelings are really fleeting as well. Mostly though, I a lot of time have this feeling of fullness and tension in my abdomen that makes me no be able to imagine having one more thing in there. Especially one that is moving and pushing. Does anyone else have this?
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September 19th, 2011, 07:19 AM
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Oh my goodness, my sex drive is back with a vengeance! Actually, truth be told, it was crazy high before I got pg and it's not really at that level yet, but compared to the negative drive of the first trimester, this is wonderful! Poor dh just thought I wasn't interested in him anymore, and I kept trying to explain that I felt like death warmed over. We did it a few times when I'd push through it, but it was tough. Now, I'm ready to go! We went a good 3 times the other day, so dh is feeling good again.
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September 19th, 2011, 11:13 AM
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My sex drive returned shortly after my SO returned to school on the opposite coast. Cruel hormones....
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September 19th, 2011, 11:24 AM
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I almost always have a really decent sex drive. I have phases but thankfully for both us it doesn't last too long Last night I had a dream that I was trying to get DH to and he flat out told me no. LOL I woke up pretty upset with him.
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September 19th, 2011, 12:00 PM
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My feelings are really fleeting as well. Mostly though, I a lot of time have this feeling of fullness and tension in my abdomen that makes me no be able to imagine having one more thing in there. Especially one that is moving and pushing. Does anyone else have this?
Yes! I haven't been wanting to BD because last time we did, it was moving my entire uterus. I could feel it just shoving against my belly button. Yuck! It was so weird feeling that I couldn't even enjoy myself.
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September 19th, 2011, 12:15 PM
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i try to give in atleat once a week haha poor guys
my sex drive is getting better but im still always so tired
Ditto^^^ Usually I don't want to but once things are over I'm happy and satisfied that things happened.
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September 19th, 2011, 01:15 PM
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Mine has come back to a normal level, especially after the 1st trimester. We don't do it as often as we'd both like though, due to long work days for DH and he's dead tired when he gets home. It does suck when you have to pencil it in to your calendar lol.
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September 19th, 2011, 02:46 PM
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last night i had a dream that i was trying to get dh to and he flat out told me no. Lol i woke up pretty upset with him.
btdt!!
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September 19th, 2011, 02:52 PM
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I literally the past week have almost cried having to leave for work every night. Pathetic, I know!
Oh, sooo many times I have done this! lol. My sleep schedule got so messed up that I was going to sleep when DH left for work and I would cry and ask him to take a vacation day almost every day.
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September 19th, 2011, 04:33 PM
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Yeah, any bding here is simply out of guilt. NO desire. I would love if it would return like that. Who am I kidding? DH would love if it would return like that.
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September 19th, 2011, 05:37 PM
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II have NO DESIREwhat so ever to DTD. I almost feel bad for DH, but usually I feel like its his fault im not interested.....so my almost guilty feeling goes away pretty quickly. And I think since I've been adopted in, im the least preggo in the group now, so atleast u know ur ahead of me on things!!
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