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November 27th, 2011, 03:46 PM
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So we live with DF's mother to save money until he gets a better job... Well lately shes been a GRADE A *****!!

Today all shes been talking about is how during all her pregnancies she worked up until she delievered and she wasnt a whiny pregnant woman...

Then she asks "When are you going back to work Steph?"

-__- grr.

Shes harping on the fact that she worked and Im not..
Im not working because Im high risk and spotting..
And shes doing NOTHING BUT STRESSING ME!! -__-

After the Christmas season Im going to ask DF if we can look for our own place.

I cant live with this woman anymore!
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November 27th, 2011, 05:01 PM
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Wow, you definitely don't need the stress at home either! Hope it gets better.
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November 27th, 2011, 05:16 PM
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Yep, I would say your best bet is to move. You're not going to be able to change her and your relationship will just get more stressed. It's not worth the money you save if no one is happy.
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November 27th, 2011, 06:39 PM
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Ugh!! I'm so sorry you're having to deal with that. If you're spotting and have a high risk pregnancy you should NOT be working. I hate when people get all self-righteous and think that everybody who doesn't do things their way are somehow not as worthy as them.

Can you talk to DF and see if he can get his momma to back off?
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November 27th, 2011, 07:00 PM
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Ugh!! I'm so sorry you're having to deal with that. If you're spotting and have a high risk pregnancy you should NOT be working. I hate when people get all self-righteous and think that everybody who doesn't do things their way are somehow not as worthy as them.

Can you talk to DF and see if he can get his momma to back off?
DF has mentioned it.. Shes like "What I cant talk in my own house?"
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November 27th, 2011, 08:46 PM
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I understand your frustration, GET OUT!
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November 28th, 2011, 04:25 AM
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I'd leave as soon as I could. I am sorry she is treating you that way. So uncalled for! Plus if that is her response to him talking to her, then he needs to say "you can talk however you want in your house, but not to my soon to be wife."
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November 28th, 2011, 06:04 AM
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Wow sorry you are going through all this! My in laws are the same way! She worked the whole time pg I have been out of work since Aug 2008 so months before I even got pg. I have been in school so that has helped keep them backed off but yeah I get comment all the time! Well we did this or even telling us how we should save money by doing this... We have plenty of money. No we are not rich but we survive and are doing fine. They are still chatting about our van because my SUV still is driving... Well there is NO way you would get 3 car seats in the back of my SUV and still get a 2,1,and new born in and out easily.

I agree you need to move out! Sorry my reply got so long but in laws are just so stressful!

Don't think I shared this... But when we took the girls to show off their shirts (big sister ones) FIL looked at DD1 and asked if it was a rummage sale shirt? "Oh never mind I see hers too I was really hoping it was a rummage sale shirt." Really?! You need to shut your mouth!! I am still mad about this and its been 3 weeks I think.
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November 28th, 2011, 06:12 AM
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Don't think I shared this... But when we took the girls to show off their shirts (big sister ones) FIL looked at DD1 and asked if it was a rummage sale shirt? "Oh never mind I see hers too I was really hoping it was a rummage sale shirt." Really?! You need to shut your mouth!! I am still mad about this and its been 3 weeks I think.
With my pregnancy hormones, if anyone said that to me.. I can promise you Bruce would be carrying me out of there before it came to punches!! Wow thats so rude!
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November 28th, 2011, 06:23 AM
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It was very rude! I am still hurt by it! I know they think that 2 is plenty and we can't afford more because I don't work but wow keep your comments to yourself!
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November 28th, 2011, 06:39 AM
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It was very rude! I am still hurt by it! I know they think that 2 is plenty and we can't afford more because I don't work but wow keep your comments to yourself!
Lots of women do the SAHM thing.. Its not a bad thing.. If DF gets this new job Ill be doing that too. So they just need to learn to stfu lol! Just because its not "their way" doesnt mean its wrong.. Grr.. People bother me!
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November 28th, 2011, 06:47 AM
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I am so sorry you are dealing with that! My SIL wants to be a SAHM, but right now they can't work that out, because they can't sell their house to downsize to a more affordable one, well, my MIL can't understand why she would want to be a SAHM, saying, no one can afford to have a one income family - really? Because I see it all of the time! I don't do it, but that isn't my thing, if it were, I would hope she wouldn't make comments like that to me! UGH! That is your prerogative and in your case, right now, it isn't by choice, try to ignore her and I hope you all are able to get out soon!!
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November 28th, 2011, 08:39 AM
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Im sorry she's being so rude! You def need to get your own place!! People just say the rudest things when your pregnant. I don't get it?!
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November 28th, 2011, 08:55 AM
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I am so sorry you are dealing with that! My SIL wants to be a SAHM, but right now they can't work that out, because they can't sell their house to downsize to a more affordable one, well, my MIL can't understand why she would want to be a SAHM, saying, no one can afford to have a one income family - really? Because I see it all of the time! I don't do it, but that isn't my thing, if it were, I would hope she wouldn't make comments like that to me! UGH! That is your prerogative and in your case, right now, it isn't by choice, try to ignore her and I hope you all are able to get out soon!!
I wasn't even a SAHM until a year ago. Up until then I worked full time and went to school at nights. It took us a long time to get where we are at now. We are not rich, but we can afford our bills and have a little bit extra if we wanted to do something. People seriously p*ss me off when they assume they know your finanaces. I hate that people do that. I always tell my sister to mind her own business!
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