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  #1  
November 30th, 2011, 02:40 PM
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So this is my first pregnancy thats actually going well.. ANd I was planning on telling my extended family December 10th.. Because Ill be like 14 weeks pregnant.. However my mom literally already told EVERYONE!! I didnt get to tell a single family member And it kinda sucks because DF's mom told EVERYONE on her side.. So I literally told my best friend and DF. I really wanted to announce my pregnancy, for 2 reasons. 1 if it went bad I didnt wanna have to go through all the "Hows the baby? ... Oh Im sorry." And 2 I wanted to see everyone excited when I told them that I was having a baby. And now idk if its even worth announcing on December 10th.. And it really makes me so sad, my mom is the worst secret keeper.. But I really thought she wouldnt say anything about this (because Ive had so many m/cs in the past.) But again she dissapoints me.. And I feel like something got taken from this pregnancy. I mean I didnt get to tell any of my family the good news.. And Im just really upset about that, but I cant talk to my mother about it because somehow Ill end up selfish or wrong and its just not worth the aggrivation.

However next pregnancy no one but me and DF know until the 2nd trimester.. And Ill get to announce it my way!!

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November 30th, 2011, 02:47 PM
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Im sorry that was stolen from you.

Keep the sex a secret until delivery and drive them all nuts!
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November 30th, 2011, 03:41 PM
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Keep the sex a secret until delivery and drive them all nuts!
AGREED!

Sorry she spilled your secret I'd personally say something for sure.
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November 30th, 2011, 03:45 PM
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OUCH! Yea, I think I'd have to say something to her. Doesn't matter if she thinks you are being...whatever. It's your feelings and if it will make you feel better to say something then do it!
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November 30th, 2011, 03:50 PM
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Im sorry that was stolen from you.

Keep the sex a secret until delivery and drive them all nuts!
Haha! Perfect!! Lol.

I'm sorry that she did that. I'd still say something though. Especially if you asked her not to tell. Basically tell her that you're disappointed in her for telling something that you asked her not to.
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November 30th, 2011, 03:53 PM
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Aw that is a bummer. Sorry she blabbed! I agree, don't tell them the sex for a little while. Let em all suffer haha
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November 30th, 2011, 04:15 PM
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Oh boooo!!! I love announcing! Stick to ur plans for #2!
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November 30th, 2011, 05:19 PM
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Im sorry that was stolen from you.

Keep the sex a secret until delivery and drive them all nuts!
What a great idea! I'd do it!
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November 30th, 2011, 05:31 PM
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Im sorry that was stolen from you.

Keep the sex a secret until delivery and drive them all nuts!
Definitely!!

But I would say something anyways. Maybe not now but when your mom asks you the sex just tell her you rather not say because everyone will know or something
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November 30th, 2011, 05:39 PM
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Bummer! Sorry they did that to you, and next time make them the LAST people to know!
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November 30th, 2011, 05:57 PM
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Aww I'm sorry!
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November 30th, 2011, 06:02 PM
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I am ss! I only told my mom and stepdad, but I knew they wouldn't tell. WE weren't sure we wanted to tell MIL because she is like your mom, can't keep a secret, we told her anyways, still not sure if everyone knows, she may have actually learned her lesson after our last loss - I am sorry your mom didn't, that really stinks!

We aren't finding out the gender, mostly because it is driving MIL nuts already - lol! It's great, I think you should do that - find out, but don't tell anyone
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December 1st, 2011, 04:52 AM
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Unfortunately I have to find out the sex and tell my mom. Shes making me cloth diapers lol. She needs to know if she should use pink patterns or blue ones.
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December 1st, 2011, 07:59 AM
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Tell her to use green and yellow Can you at least make her wait in suspense for a couple of weeks...until you are able to tell everyone else the gender yourself!
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December 1st, 2011, 08:11 AM
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Oh I plan on it
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December 1st, 2011, 10:42 AM
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Good Or tell her at the same time you tell everyone else and tell her since she had a hard time keeping it a secret that she doesn't get privileged info like that anymore because you feel cheated out of such great news!
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