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December 9th, 2011, 09:29 PM
Mommyx12's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Tuesday, the day after our first u/s, I started having some bleeding at work. I felt totally hopeless but they had also told me that I had an SCH, so I was hoping that was what it was. Had more on Wednesday but I wasn't soaking pads and it was mostly when I wiped. Then yestereday at work I started having terrible cramps and I passed a couple clots. I called the doc this am to be seen and my worst fear was happening. The sac was collasping and was moving down. At first I was going to try to just miscarry naturally. The doc was telling me what to expect as far as bleeding and cramping and I remembered how hard last night was and that was a few clots. So he was able to do the d&c this evening. My back has been hurting for a few days and has really been hurting yesterday and today, I also started cramping more and passed a few more clots so I'm glad I went ahead with the procedure. My physical pain is pretty much gone right now. Emotionally, I'm so hurt, numb and mad. I was totally fine being done and we were being careful, we "shouldn't" have gotten pregnant. But as soon as I found out, I was happy (and scared of this happening) but I wanted and loved this baby already. I know that no one ever understands why these things happens but its really a bitter pill for me, like someone just played a horrible, cruel joke on me. Thankfully, I have the weekend off and I have plenty of sick/personal time that I can take if I need to. This week has been emotionally draining and I'm glad I finally got an answer if though it one I hate. Good bye, I wish you all the best.
Tammy, mommy to:
Jessica(18), Daniel(17), Anna(14), Kaylee(12), Emily(10), Alyssa(9), Eli(8), Nathan(6), Natalie(5), Bethany(3), and Ainsley(1)
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December 9th, 2011, 10:16 PM
gratefulmama's Avatar Melissa, Mama to Lily
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I am so, so sorry. (HUGS)

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December 10th, 2011, 04:50 AM
~*Amy*~'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: ON. Canada
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I'm so sorry, please make sure you take the time you need. HUGS

Thank you cavewoman for my amazing siggie!!

Please don't mention on FB!
2 Angels in Heaven...Always remembered
Wanna go to Florida?>>>> MY FLORIDA GETAWAY
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December 10th, 2011, 06:58 AM
txmumx4's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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December 10th, 2011, 07:31 AM
LadyBugMommyof1's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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December 10th, 2011, 08:49 AM
*Bobbie*'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Rochester, NY
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So sorry to read this hugs!
Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (23) Amanda (20) Matthew ( 6) and Daniel (4).... RYAN DAVID 1/4/14 8lbs 10oz 20 3/4 inches!!! My miracle happened!
step-mom to: Stephany (24) and Krista (21)
step-grandma to: Wesley, Rosemarie, Scarlett

On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon.
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pictures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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