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  #1  
January 2nd, 2012, 04:00 PM
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Ok. It's not that I don't love pregnancy, I like it and am so grateful. But I have a lot or recent complaints and getting them out helps me feel tons better. Share yours.

- I feel like I need to go #3 everyday now :/
- I can't reach things in my cabinet, and it is frustrating as heck.
- I have insomnia
- Around 4pm I literally have to pry my eyes open so I don't pass out into a sleep coma
- So uncomfortable and sore
- Horny but too tired
- Fewer and fewer sex positions
- I mentioned before the whole, bladder is never empty thing.
- I HATE pregnancy pants. I LOATHE them!!! I like to look like I have an *****, thankyouverymuch!
- Everything smells. Everyone chews loudly. And breathes loudly. And smells.
- I keep getting sore tummy muscles from playing with my son, and then I feel like dirt.
- I STILL get nauseated every day

that's all for now
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January 2nd, 2012, 04:02 PM
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I could ditto a lot of those!
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January 2nd, 2012, 04:06 PM
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I know what you mean! Sometimes you just have to let it all out.
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January 2nd, 2012, 04:12 PM
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1. Pelvic rest. It sucks. I'm not meant for it. lol

2. Taking it easy. I have too much to do to be kicking back and relaxing.

3. Needing to pee constantly is aggravating.

4. I'm emotional about everything.

5. Worrying about placenta previa and when I could start bleeding at any given moment. Also add risk of pre term labor in there.

6. feeling 30 weeks pregnant instead of 20.

7. Not sleeping too well and being exhausted at all the wrong times of day.

I could add more. I'm also thankful for this pregnancy and feel a little bitter that everything since ttc has been a struggle. I want an uneventful boring pregnancy like last time!! lol I guess that's part of the sacrifice and I'm willing to do it. Complaining is good sometimes though.
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January 2nd, 2012, 04:14 PM
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my back hurts something chronic.

i ate steak today and had to throw most of it out because i was paranoid it wasn't cooked enough.

i'm hungry, and full in equal measures. my belly just can't get satisified!

i am seriously contemplating having a toilet installed into the couch so i don't have to get up from the couch every two minutes to go pee!

my nipples hurt and leak like a mofo, and if i was equiped with a saw, my boobs would be nonexistant.

i am lacking sleep, because i wake up roasting hot, and have to piddle ALL the freaking time!
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January 2nd, 2012, 04:33 PM
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Wow. Is that all?


If you feel like passing out at 4pm, can you?
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January 2nd, 2012, 04:42 PM
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I hate waking up from midnight to 3 am bc I can't sleep.

I hate feeling out of breath when I barely do anything.

I hate the stretchy achy feeling around my belly and soreness down there like I'm about to drop a bowling ball between my legs.

I hate being emotional and feeling like I can cry over the dumbest things.

I hate having huge heavy porn star boobs that kill my back!
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January 2nd, 2012, 04:58 PM
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Wow. Is that all?


If you feel like passing out at 4pm, can you?
Heck no that isn't all! There are lots of good things too, but basically I don't like not having my body to myself. So the good things are all baby related (and partly boob related).

And I have a 2 year old son so there is no napping for me at 4pm!
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January 2nd, 2012, 05:14 PM
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Im so sore too I felt like the only one!
and I have to pee all the time now
Im never comfortable
and Im still scared that something bad will happen to my baby
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January 2nd, 2012, 07:41 PM
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Yeah, I'm with you there on not having time to be on bedrest! Ugh! The guilt is amazing. And pelvic rest is annoying. It doesn't take away dhs sex drive...it just makes it more work for me! Aside from that the hip pain and soreness don't really bug me because I feel its par for the course. I've had severe pain and this isn't there yet. I'm grateful for that. Lol but the bleeds and all are really driving me nuts!
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January 2nd, 2012, 08:02 PM
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-leg cramps
-sore tummy muscles
-feet start swelling a bit today
-exhausted
-pee too much
-hungry for things that are not in our fridge
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January 2nd, 2012, 08:15 PM
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ok. It's not that i don't love pregnancy, i like it and am so grateful. But i have a lot or recent complaints and getting them out helps me feel tons better. Share yours.


- i hate pregnancy pants. I loathe them!!! I like to look like i have an *****, thankyouverymuch!
- everything smells. Everyone chews loudly. And breathes loudly. And smells.


That's all for now
um yes!!!!
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January 3rd, 2012, 08:32 AM
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Ok. It's not that I don't love pregnancy, I like it and am so grateful. But I have a lot or recent complaints and getting them out helps me feel tons better. Share yours.

- I feel like I need to go #3 everyday now :/
- I can't reach things in my cabinet, and it is frustrating as heck.
- I have insomnia
- Around 4pm I literally have to pry my eyes open so I don't pass out into a sleep coma
- So uncomfortable and sore
- Horny but too tired
- Fewer and fewer sex positions
- I mentioned before the whole, bladder is never empty thing.
- I HATE pregnancy pants. I LOATHE them!!! I like to look like I have an *****, thankyouverymuch!
- Everything smells. Everyone chews loudly. And breathes loudly. And smells.
- I keep getting sore tummy muscles from playing with my son, and then I feel like dirt.
- I STILL get nauseated every day

that's all for now
almost everything... the only thing I can't say is that I don't like my maternity pants. I do, I really like mine. I don't like that I can't find any true maternity sweatpants - I know everyone else is probably hot and that's why BUT I need some nice sweats for sleeping and lounging around the house after work.... I wear my husbands, which still fit at least for now. Oh and my tummy muscles are sore but not from playing - just sore. At least we're not alone. I hope it gets better.
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January 3rd, 2012, 11:46 AM
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My biggest problem is being overly moody.
I get irrationally upset about so many things and jump down DF's throat before even realizing it....and then I get mad because I realize I shouldn't have got so mad.

& I swear I can smell BO on people in stores way more than I could before being preggo and it drives me nuts. O_o
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January 3rd, 2012, 01:45 PM
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I'll add!

-Back pain! This son of mine has decided my sciatic nerve is the best place in the world to lay

-Peeing every 2 minutes. If he's not on my sciatic nerve he's jumping on my bladder!

- Forced rest. I wouldn't mind this if I didn't have so much to do and an almost 2 year old to keep up with. But if I play nice, I might not have to go on complete bed rest

I think that covers all of mine- I don't have too many complaints but this made me feel better. Thanks for coming up with this post MJ!
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January 3rd, 2012, 01:50 PM
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I can relate!! I hate the bloodhound sense of smell! Especially combined with still being nauseous half the time. I'm sick of throwing up. I have a hard time with sharing my body and not being able to do everything that I normally would be able to..(lack of energy, motivation etc., or the general not being able to overdo it) I LOVE the kicks, but it drives me crazy when they wake me up. The moodiness/hormones suck too; I hate being so irritable. (People also drive all wrong, talk to loudly, say rude/inconsiderate things etc ALL the time. I find I am biting my tongue constantly) I'm glad that at least I can recognize it (the hormones) now and sometimes readjust my behavior before I go off on DH/anyone else.

It does feel good just to "say" these things. There is so much stigma that women are supposed to just enjoy every single second of pregnancy, and that if you complain about it then you are ungrateful for the blessing of a baby. I hate that stereotype!! I am incredibly happy that we are having a healthy baby; but that shouldn't mean that I can't say that I don't enjoy being moody, constipated, nauseous, tired and slowly putting a watermelon inside my shirt.
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