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January 9th, 2012, 05:52 PM
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Thanks for all the good info ladies.

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January 9th, 2012, 06:51 PM
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I had an episiotomy done with my first daughter with no pain meds (not by choice) and she just stuck me with a needle of something to numb the area before she cut.

Good luck with no pain meds! I couldnt do it like that again lol you're more brave than me.

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January 10th, 2012, 05:16 AM
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I tore almost to my rectum with my first and didn't even feel it or know the tear was that bad until they were sewing me up! Your adrenaline kicks in I think, lol...With my second son I had the most amazing nurse, she had me almost in a trance with relaxation techniques and I truly didn't push at all to get him out and he was 8lbs 12 oz! I really believe it's mind over matter...relax and breathe and trust your body...
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January 10th, 2012, 09:00 AM
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Broke my water first. Didn't work...so.....I had pit, no epi. The pit kicked my butt. I had no time to breath or relax it seemed. 2 hours later he wasn't out. I tried different positions and nothing. I don't think I had the right guidance, a doula would of been helpful. Everyone's pain is different too, mine was all lower abdominal, my uterus was trying to expel him and I didn't even feel like pushing. She put a catheter in me to empty my bladder, didn't feel that. I would do an epi this time, even at a lower dose for some relief. Unless natural labor is more manageable, which I hope I go into labor on my own this time at 39 weeks.

OH and I took Bradley with my husband. I didn't even think of it when the pain hit, that was my husbands job, after all that's why he came with right? Hmmm...he never implemented what we learned.
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January 10th, 2012, 04:24 PM
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Just wanted to say I've had two births with an epidural (the first two) and the last was natural. The first one I had to have an episiotomy. The second, I tore when they used the vacuum. The natural birth, my body worked through labor itself and I didn't have ANY issues with tearing or needing an episiotomy. I think if you leave things be they have a better chance of working naturally! Just my opinion!

Also wanted to say I was put on pit with all three labors as well.

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January 10th, 2012, 06:06 PM
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I had two labors without pit, without epidurals. I tore very slightly with my first and worse with my second (she was bigger). I didn't notice at all until afterwards... I do think the adrenaline kicks in and the pressure from their head is intense and kind of numbs you a little bit.

I'm a pretty big wuss about pain, which is why my hubby wasn't so sure about this natural birthing thing. But birthing apparently comes really naturally to me.... I took bradley classes but mostly during labor I just focus on my breathing and my internal waves of contractions and zone out. I don't really even notice I'm in heavy labor until I am at the end. It's weird. And no I can't imagine laying down during labor... I was sitting up or on hands and knees for both the entire time. I needed that forward angle.

This time I want to try using a squatting bar for pushing so I can avoid tearing.

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January 11th, 2012, 06:54 AM
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I tried to go without and EPI and lasted about 2 hours with DS, i was induced though, so i had Pit. contractions.

I have no real plans this time one way or another, im hoping if i go into labor on my own that i can manage the pain, and im not entirely sure if my OB will let me have an EPI, since i am a VBAC patient again ( even though ive already had one, stupid)

I do have big headed babies too, and i asked the U/S tech at my 20 week appt if this baby had a big head yet, and she told me she was still in the normal range, haha. I had 2nd degree tears with DS.
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January 11th, 2012, 01:10 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with your anatony and the position of the baby...Kaiden came out in 4 hours, I got the epi 10 minutes before I became a 10 (went from a 4 to a 10 in less than an hour!) - if I had known, I would have tried to go natural just because I think I could have lasted 10 more minutes (and it made pushing longer since I had just had the epi), but I will say, my epi was great

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January 11th, 2012, 04:51 PM
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I didn't get cut, but had a small tear. That wasn't anything worse than the contractions or pushing itself.

It was a ton of pain for pushing and the last contractions right before. But before that, I sat on a birthing (exercise) ball and was able to manage pretty well. My labor was pretty fast though. About 10 hours start to finish and only about 5-6 hours of truly painful contractions.

ETA: Also, I have to say I had a great set of nurses. I had no birthing classes. I was just going with what my body told me. The nurses were great with giving me different positions to try and being flexible with monitoring etc. I agree with other posters, I definitely could not labor laying in bed. I pretty much stood up or sat on the ball the whole time.
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