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I love bingo and the first sunday of every month is all you can play for ten dollars so my best friend phoned me last night and asked if i wanted to go today and even offered her 15 year old as a babysitter and she use to. babysit the. boys for me all the time but i feel bad for leaving hannah like she is too little and its too soon i am being crazy right???? But at the sametime if i go today i also leaving hannah with a friend friday night for christophers birthday party to the waterpark thats twice in one week
So, let me get this straight. You have been complaining up and down that Hannah's dad will not come help you, that he won't come watch Hannah for an hour a few days a week so you can take a SHOWER, but now he is coming for an ENTIRE DAY so you can play bingo all day??? I thought this was the guy that wouldn't help you at all and that you could never call and ask for anything, who could never come because he doesn't have a car, etc., etc., etc.
I don't even know what to say to this. I really can't believe that you are unwilling to have Hannah's dad come over and help you out when you actually NEED it, but when you don't HAVE to do something, you call him without a problem. AND HE COMES OVER!!! That's what kills me. He is willing to sit for you all day so you can have fun, yet you claim that he isn't willing to help you when you really need it.
Well, I am at least glad he gets to spend the day with his daughter.
That is completely backwards that he's doing that it's great he wants to do something but geez, why now??
Jenny said that if she called Hannah's dad to come help, he wouldn't come, so she never called. We had a conversation about this when she needed a shower and I told her repeatedly to ask because she won't know that he won't come unless she asks.
I am just blown away that she will ask him to come over for bingo but not for a shower.
he actually let himself in this morning while i was in the shower i never asked him to come..I had a 15 yr old that was willing to babysit but didnt feel comfortable leaving the kids with her (well the baby at least so i told her thanks but no thanks)
so now im sitting on the computer while hannahs dad is feeding her in the living room....not sure if im going anywhere or just bumming around here today.
he hasnt said anything to to me since he got here....our previous conversations about him willing to watch the kids were over text.....kind of awkward that he hasnt said anything......but oh well hes making an effort and is feeding hannah thats what counts
Look, I don't care if you go to bingo or not. The point is that you have someone in your life that is willing to come over and help, and you should be asking him for help when you need it. But, I said that before. I am just glad he is there.