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Our 1st baby shower is tomorrow. I still don't think it's actually hit me that I"M HAVING A BABY!!! Obviously, I'm aware she's on her way lol, but it still doesn't seem like I'm actually this lucky to become a mama to a sweet girl! Weird, maybe? Sort of dream like sometimes. Maybe when we get the nursery all set up, and I have more things for her it will hit me.
On the ticked off note...we are remodeling a house that should be done late this month. This is where we will live for a year or a little less. It's in a bigger town, about 20 miles from where we are from. Where we go shopping and out to eat, etc. One of his friends who came over to "help" with the house brought some girl he supposedly knows from college. Ok, fine. Whatever. I went out to eat with 3 of my girl friends, and when I got back to our house under construction, 2 additional friends had shown up (a couple, whom I really like) and they were all standing around drinking some beers. New girl had changed her clothes into, and I'm not exaggerating at all, a hooker outfit. I probably shouldn't judge, to each their own, but to just be standing around in a dirty basement...that outfit was a little over the top. I'm sure she's a nice girl, and blah blah blah, but I'm uncomfortable with some chick that I do not know at MY HOUSE. When I'm not even there. I am a tad territorial, I know, and hormonal as well. But I feel disrespected. Like, shouldn't I even have a say who is at my own house? Ugh. I may be overreacting and just being crabby. But it kinda ticked me off. I went back to our other house because I'm tired, and what prego lady wants to stand around with a bunch of people drinking? Not this one. I let him know I felt disrespected, but of course, he doesn't see why. It's not like I'm threatened or jealous or anything, but I just don't like the situation.
I don't think it hit me I was having a baby till he was a few weeks old lol I just felt like I was having a happy dream. it will still hit me occasionaly haha and he is two and a half.
as far as the other stuff goes, sorry he disrespected you like that. I would definitely feel a little awkward too.