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April 3rd, 2012, 06:58 AM
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so i had gotten my first bfp march 22nd..was very faint. kept testing and they kept getting darker! On 3/31 we planned a big get together...we went out to eat with family and friends to do the "big reveal" to our daughter who wants this just as bad as we do! Everything went great, she was so excited and we had so much fun! Got home that night....and i was bleeding. I just had a MC in nov...this couldnt be happening. Yesterday am i called the dr first thing...sent me for hgc tests. I should have been about 5 weeks. My levels came back at 15.1. Not good! Nurse said I could be just earlier than i thought. I said like how early...she says about a week!! well geez lady...i've been getting bfp's for over a week! Well i've still been taking prego tests..and this morning...very faint line. I think this is even harder than last time. I have a 10 year old DD...had an ectopic pregnancy in '08 and had to have emergency surgery due to my tube rupturing...so i lost a tube, a MC nov '11 and now another MC this month. I just dont understand. I know God has an awesome plan for me and my family...but this is just hard! Keeping my faith that we will have another. Thanks for listening to me vent
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April 3rd, 2012, 07:02 AM
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So so sorry! Going through a loss myself in the last year I know nothing I say will make you feel better! Just know that there is a reason for everything and that I will be praying for you!
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April 3rd, 2012, 07:04 AM
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So sorry
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April 3rd, 2012, 07:06 AM
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I am so, so very sorry... I know it is hard sometimes to understand God's plan... I admire your faith, though I know how difficult it is to lose little ones (no matter how early). My thoughts and prayers go out to you and please know you can always look me up if you need to chat or vent!
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April 3rd, 2012, 07:09 AM
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I am so so sorry... T&Ps coming your way
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April 3rd, 2012, 07:12 AM
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Thanks Yall! I've got to keep my faith, as God is my rock! I've done a lot of questioning thats for sure...but i think He expects that of us. I've got people to talk to and hubby ofcourse...but it's different when there are people that can usually relate. Thanks again
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April 3rd, 2012, 07:34 AM
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I am so so sorry to hear about your loss. Miscarriages are so unfair and I wish there were answers as to why. Have you had a recurrent miscarriage panel? Sending you hugs...
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April 3rd, 2012, 07:54 AM
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im not sure what a recurren miscarriage panel is...
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April 3rd, 2012, 08:05 AM
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I am so so sorry . We are here for you to vent away.
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April 3rd, 2012, 08:09 AM
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i'm so sorry to hear that! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
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April 3rd, 2012, 08:15 AM
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I'm so sorry
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April 3rd, 2012, 09:02 AM
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I'm sorry you're going through this too, especially after you just told your DD Sending big hugs.
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April 3rd, 2012, 12:35 PM
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so sorry hun huge hugs xxxx
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April 3rd, 2012, 10:07 PM
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Im so sorry for your loss, and pray that God's plan has your sticky healthy baby very soon. God bless you and your family. I had three consecutive m/c's in 2009 before having my 18mo old dd in my pic below. Dont give up hope.
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April 4th, 2012, 03:24 AM
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I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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April 4th, 2012, 04:17 AM
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I am so sorry. Very sad that you are going through this, and hope you can find some peace.
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April 4th, 2012, 04:29 AM
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I am so sorry.
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April 4th, 2012, 05:05 AM
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I'm so sorry YOu are in my thoughts and prayers
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April 4th, 2012, 08:31 AM
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So sorry.
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April 4th, 2012, 05:17 PM
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Hugs, I love your faith, God does have an AWESOME plan for you and your family!
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