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April 5th, 2012, 03:42 AM
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Anyone else having nightmares about miscarrying. OMG I did not sleep well last night at all. I almost miscarried my DD twice and I had a miscarriage 4 years ago. Now I'm terrified of loosing this baby.
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April 5th, 2012, 03:55 AM
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I have not had any nightmares about miscarriages, but it has been weighing heavily on my mind. I had a m/c between #5 and #6 and it was heartbreaking. I will feel much better after my first appt and u/s when I see my little one, only 21 days to go!
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April 5th, 2012, 04:03 AM
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I'm so sorry you are not sleeping well sweet my dreams are pretty vivid & crazy, but I haven't even dreamt of being preggers yet. We all know your mind is just trying to come to terms with your thoughts & your past experiences are obviously making you pretty nervous. I wish we could just fast forward a bit to see it will all be OK, but until time travel can happen all I can give is this hug
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April 5th, 2012, 05:56 AM
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Well said Beck.... Raina.....everything will be alright this time...just wait and see
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April 5th, 2012, 05:59 AM
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I don't have any words of wisdom, but I wanted to offer some support. Many prayers went into you getting pregnant, and now many prayers are going into keeping your little one safe.
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Thank you ladies.... I just want to fastforward to the end of may.... I keep thinking ok, if I can hit the 6 week mark then the risk goes down a little, and once I hear a heartbeat the goes down a little.... I am living in fear and I HATE IT!!!!

I keep praying and asking for peace.... God I need some peace right now. I pray for this baby daily and nightly.... I can use all the prayers I can get ladies...

I keep trying to remind myself that God would not answer my prayers just to have that answer be taken away. But then I think of all the other ladies who have had their prayers answered, and unfortunately had their hearts broken. My heart goes out to them.

I need peace
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April 5th, 2012, 07:37 AM
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I just had one last night. I dreamed I was having contractions and I was trying to stop them. I hate miscarriage dreams. I'm a little superstitious because with my ectopic after my first IVF, I had a miscarriage dream and the next day, my betas started dropping.
What is a little freakier is that I woke up this morning with a terrible headache and chills so I took my temperature. My temp is WAY down. I hope everything is ok.
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I just had one last night. I dreamed I was having contractions and I was trying to stop them. I hate miscarriage dreams. I'm a little superstitious because with my ectopic after my first IVF, I had a miscarriage dream and the next day, my betas started dropping.
What is a little freakier is that I woke up this morning with a terrible headache and chills so I took my temperature. My temp is WAY down. I hope everything is ok.
I will keep you in my prayers.
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April 5th, 2012, 08:52 AM
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I just had one last night. I dreamed I was having contractions and I was trying to stop them. I hate miscarriage dreams. I'm a little superstitious because with my ectopic after my first IVF, I had a miscarriage dream and the next day, my betas started dropping.
What is a little freakier is that I woke up this morning with a terrible headache and chills so I took my temperature. My temp is WAY down. I hope everything is ok.
You and the LO will be in my thoughts and prayers
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We started trying for our last child in September 2011 and it has been a rollercoaster
BFP #4 Baby girl Lauren born sleeping at 18 weeks July 5 2012 (PPROM) no answers why
BFP #5 - D&C Feb 11 2013 (heart Stopped at 13 weeks)
BFP #6 - Miscarriage at 8 weeks Nov 28 2014
BFP #7 - Baby girl Kimiah Genesis born sleeping at 23 weeks June 28 2016 (PPROM and PL) found out after autopsy i have an infection in my uterus, need to go on antibiotics if i ever get pregnant again

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Some days i feel to just give up but a part of me can't let go of the thought of hopefully one day God blessing us again!!!!
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April 5th, 2012, 08:58 AM
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Thanks ladies, I really appreciate the good thoughts.
Raina, I'll be thinking good thoughts for your little bean too. I know how these miscarriage dreams can shake you up. Hugs to you!
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April 5th, 2012, 10:01 AM
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Good thoughts your way ladies. Having dreams like this is completely normal and just reflects the anxiety that you are feeling. I have had them and I know how scary they can be.
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April 5th, 2012, 10:11 AM
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Thanks ladies.... Iwas talking to my mom and she said I had these nightmares while pregnant with my DD too.... I dont remember these at all.... but it kinda helps... maybe its just a normal pregnancy thing for me.... I mean its normal for a mom to worry about her kids right.
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