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April 12th, 2012, 02:10 PM
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Well sorry to introduce myself and leave, but things are not looking good over here. Got my beta back today at only 5.9. Just enough to almost be pregnant, but it's likely a chemical or another ectopic. I'm heartbroken and don't really know why this stuff keeps happening to us. But I wish all you ladies so much luck. I'm sure I'll lurk a little, but I think I'll be taking some time off after this loss.
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April 12th, 2012, 02:28 PM
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Sorry your down... is this the first time you've had beta done? Maybe your just not as far as you thought??? Hope you get some answers..maybe if you stop trying you will get a surprise....thoughts and prayers headed your way
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April 12th, 2012, 02:38 PM
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oh no Lindsay, i hope it's just a late implanter! Is your RE going to do another couple of betas??
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April 12th, 2012, 03:23 PM
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You'l be in my thoughts & prayers!! Really hope you'll be sticking around
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April 12th, 2012, 03:45 PM
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I'm so sorry. I agree, maybe it is JUST that early?

Has your Dr. brought up taking baby aspirin or ruling out any blood clotting disorders? My dr. had me on that my last pregnancy and I'm doing it this time around too. Are they going to do any testing to figure out if something else is going on. Have you had yoru thyroid tested?

I truly hope it's just super early. Let us know. ((HUGS))
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April 12th, 2012, 03:59 PM
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I'm sorry hun I hope its just becasue you are too early. You will be in my T&P
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April 12th, 2012, 03:59 PM
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I'm so sorry hun, I pray it's not what you are thinking!
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April 12th, 2012, 04:07 PM
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Oh no Lindsay!! Ditto what the other ladies have said and I'm so hoping that you're just early... hugs!
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April 12th, 2012, 06:09 PM
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Thanks ladies, but even if it were a late implanter (a very late implanter) a level that low is just too low at this point. DH and I are still holding out the tiniest bit of hope, but it's not likely so we are just trying to get through the weekend at this point. I did have my thyroid checked and it is a bit on the high side of normal so I've been on synthroid for a few months. Problem is, I ran out of synthroid about a week ago so I'm waiting to get in with my pcp for a refill. Other than that I've done a lot of tests, but not sure about the clotting disorder really, I may ask for more tests once this part is over. Honestly I think we'll end up taking a break if this one doesn't happen. Thanks for all the support though ladies.
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April 12th, 2012, 06:12 PM
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Thinking of you & DH. <3
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April 12th, 2012, 06:25 PM
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Im sorry your going through this, I trully am. Please dont give up hope for your future though, I also had 3 m/c's before my 19mo old. I know how devistating they are. You will get that perfect sticky baby, just hold on and keep believing. Praying for you.
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April 12th, 2012, 06:27 PM
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I'm so sorry. My prayers are headed your way. Hope you get all your health squared around quickly to tray again soon.
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April 12th, 2012, 09:08 PM
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I'm so so sorry to read this. Thoughts and prayers to you...
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April 13th, 2012, 03:50 AM
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I am so sorry.. Lots of T&Ps coming your way
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April 13th, 2012, 04:58 AM
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I'm so sorry. I can only imagine what a tough journey this has been.
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April 13th, 2012, 09:14 AM
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You are in my thoughts- don't give up hope yet. I am so sorry you are going through this.
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April 13th, 2012, 09:37 AM
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So sorry to read this, Lindsay. I don't know why this is happening to you either, except to say that your body is clearly just waiting for the "right" bean to come along. I know that's probably not very helpful to you at this point, but I truly believe it. I understand wanting to take time off too. I felt so frustrated after my m/c...when the time is right, I wish you lots of luck and baby dust.
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April 13th, 2012, 06:14 PM
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I am so sorry to hear this. You're in my thoughts...
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