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May 5th, 2012, 05:05 PM
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Update on me. Sorry I've been MIA it's been an emotional roller coaster lately.

On Monday 4/30 our 2nd u/s showed baby b with no heart beat and baby a was measuring 3 days ahead and had a great heartbeat of 174. On Friday 5/4 I went back in and u/s showed no heart beat for either baby and the yolk sac was measuring 8mm and doc said it should be under 5mm. We are truly devastated by this loss. This was our last chance, 4th IVF and we are done. I've now have had 3 m/c losing 4 babies. It's time to put this journey in the past, raise our boys and continue to travel adding a few more vacations during the year. This is a very sad time for us but after 7 years we have no other choice then to believe that this is what is meant to be for our family. I'm scheduled for a D & C on Tuesday after they do 1 last u/s. We will be doing genetic testing to see exactly what the problem was. Even though we are done I feel like I would forever regret it if we decided not to do it.

I have truly enjoyed my time spent here on JM and I will continue to randomly log in and get an update on everyone.
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May 5th, 2012, 05:23 PM
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I'm so sorry for your losses.
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May 5th, 2012, 05:53 PM
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Oh Brynn, I'm so sorry for your losses
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May 5th, 2012, 06:30 PM
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Oh Brynn this just breaks my heart for you. I'm so very, very sorry.
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May 5th, 2012, 06:32 PM
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I saw the title, cringed and said, nooo!!! I am so sad to read this, it is all so unfair. I will be thinking about you in the coming weeks and I hope the genetic testing gives you some peace and closure. I had it done with my last miscarriage and it helped with the healing process.
Sending you lots of gentle hugs and prayers.
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May 5th, 2012, 06:58 PM
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Sorry for your loss
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May 5th, 2012, 07:16 PM
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Gosh Brynn I am so so sorry.
I understand some of what you're going through but I cant begin to know how it feels to lose both babies. Prayers are with you. Good luck on whatever comes next for you and your family.
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May 5th, 2012, 07:47 PM
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I know that know words can possibly begin to make you feel the least bit better but please know how truly sorry I am and know that I will be thinking and praying for you! I believe with all my heart that everything happens for a reason, although we may not like what happens or understand it, there is a purpose!
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May 5th, 2012, 07:50 PM
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I am so so sorry...my heart aches for you.
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May 5th, 2012, 08:14 PM
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I am so sorry you are having to go through this again. My heart is breaking for you and your family. I pray you are able to find peace soon and the healing process can begin once you get some answers.
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May 5th, 2012, 08:28 PM
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Oh Brynn.....I am sooo very sorry for your losses. I hope the genetic testing will bring you some closure.
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May 5th, 2012, 09:00 PM
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My heart is breaking for you guys. I'm saying huge prayers for comfort and peace.
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May 5th, 2012, 09:30 PM
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oh no Brynn....I am so so sorry!! My heart aches for you and I cant imagine what you are going through. Praying for peace, healing and understanding.
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May 5th, 2012, 09:48 PM
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My heart truly aches for you this evening. I know all to well the devistating feeling of loosing your baby. I also know the need to move on. Im praying for your closure to come and for your heart to heal a little bit. I pray your surgery go's well and that your boy's will some how comfort you in a way that only our children can. God bless you and your family.
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May 6th, 2012, 03:45 AM
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I am so sorry, my heart is breaking for you, xx
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May 6th, 2012, 03:48 AM
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I'm so sorry hun....
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May 6th, 2012, 04:19 AM
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Thoughts and prayers to your family.
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May 6th, 2012, 05:00 AM
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I'm so very sorry for your losses. I hope that you can find comfort in the arms of your husband, and joy through the eyes if your sons. Be kind to yourself as you heal.
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May 6th, 2012, 05:17 AM
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Hugs, I am so sorry for your losses.
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May 6th, 2012, 05:59 AM
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I am so sorry. IVF can be so stressful and I'm sorry you've had losses on top of that. None of it seems fair at all. I hope that the genetic analysis provides you some peace.
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