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June 5th, 2012, 05:45 AM
Jennyt13's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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..the more scared I get! I just announced on a conference call to my account team that I'm pregnant yesterday. I never see them face to face - so honestly - I could have gone my whole pregnancy without them knowing.

Now - I'm nervous again - since even MORE people know! I mean - I'm 16 weeks pregnant, not like I told them early or anything!
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Starting IVF/PGD - September 2012
47 eggs retrieved (OUCH!)
38 eggs mature
26 eggs fertilized
10 embryos biopsied
3 embryos - 2 boys, 1 girl are waiting to be transferred - transferring 1 boy 1 girl on first FET!!!

2/12/13 - FET - Cancelled due to fluid in the uterus
2/20/13 - Hysteroscopy scheduled - 1 polyp removed.

4/10/13 - FET - 2 embies transferred as planned! 1 boy 1 girl!
4/22/13 - Trying to wait to test - Beta scheduled!! -
7/31/13 - FET - 1 embie transferred - 1 boy
8/7/13 - 7dp5dt - - but very light
8/9/13 - 9dp5dt - - no mistaking this one!
8/12/13 - 1st Beta scheduled - 64
8/14/13 - 2nd Beta scheduled - only 10
03/03/14 - FET #3 - 1 embie transferred - 1 girl
3/11/14 - FAINT BFP
3/13/14 - HCG only 20.2
3/17/14 - HCG rose to 151!!!
3/20/14 - HCG rose again - 630! Nurse was in shock!
3/27/14 - Ultrasound scheduled - HB Found! 6w1d 124bpm
4/3/14 - Second Ultrasound - Still doing well!
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June 5th, 2012, 06:14 AM
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I hear you! I had a miscarriage before my daughter and we had told a fair amount of people. I'm 14 almost 15 weeks and I do still feel nervous....I'm sure it will be okay for both of us, but still!!
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June 5th, 2012, 06:48 AM
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I'm finally kind of getting over the nervousness, but I waited so long for the same reason. It just felt safer not telling any of them.
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June 5th, 2012, 06:54 AM
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I"ve always been told that if you tell early, only tell people you are willing to "untell" - because of the risk of miscarriage. After 3 miscarriages myself - I know I was greatful I only told immediate family. We will all have a healthy,happy 9 months! Its all good.
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Michael Joseph Born 1/14/11 at 2:46pm
Baby Christian - born into heaven at 22 weeks gestation - 7/14/12

Starting IVF/PGD - September 2012
47 eggs retrieved (OUCH!)
38 eggs mature
26 eggs fertilized
10 embryos biopsied
3 embryos - 2 boys, 1 girl are waiting to be transferred - transferring 1 boy 1 girl on first FET!!!

2/12/13 - FET - Cancelled due to fluid in the uterus
2/20/13 - Hysteroscopy scheduled - 1 polyp removed.

4/10/13 - FET - 2 embies transferred as planned! 1 boy 1 girl!
4/22/13 - Trying to wait to test - Beta scheduled!! -
7/31/13 - FET - 1 embie transferred - 1 boy
8/7/13 - 7dp5dt - - but very light
8/9/13 - 9dp5dt - - no mistaking this one!
8/12/13 - 1st Beta scheduled - 64
8/14/13 - 2nd Beta scheduled - only 10
03/03/14 - FET #3 - 1 embie transferred - 1 girl
3/11/14 - FAINT BFP
3/13/14 - HCG only 20.2
3/17/14 - HCG rose to 151!!!
3/20/14 - HCG rose again - 630! Nurse was in shock!
3/27/14 - Ultrasound scheduled - HB Found! 6w1d 124bpm
4/3/14 - Second Ultrasound - Still doing well!
4/14/14 - First OB appointment - looking good!
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June 5th, 2012, 08:27 AM
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I used to tell early. This time I still haven't made a big announcement. I've told family and people at church have known for awhile. A few people at work know. I haven't announced on FB though. I may just wait until we find out the gender. Ha, it may end up being when we have the baby, lol! I know that everything should be fine now but I still worry a tiny bit, nothing like before but still there are what ifs...
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June 5th, 2012, 08:45 AM
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I waited a good amount of time to tell people because I was nervous too... I was 16+ weeks when I told facebook and I'm still telling people from church who aren't on my fb (I don't see everyone every week since I go to a fairly large church).
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June 5th, 2012, 09:10 AM
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I still haven't made the "official" announcement to everyone, which will be done via FB - it's easier to get the word to all my family and friends that way. I'm waiting till I find out the gender.

I'll still be nervous then, but have decided to make the best of every day. With my last two losses, one I announce at 14 weeks and found out I had a missed m/c at 16 weeks & then w/ Daniel I announced at 16 and lost him at 19...

I think this is the year of the rainbow baby though & we will all be blessed with our little bundles in the end - healthy and happy
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June 5th, 2012, 03:25 PM
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After two miscarriages and the complications with this pregnancy, I find myself nervous about telling people. I think it's a natural fear.
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June 5th, 2012, 07:38 PM
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I still get nervous telling people, better yet it scares me the more people who know.
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